I've been dating a dude for 3 weeks and about a week ago we just quit talking. Should I dump him or try to make it work?? HELP!!!!
2006-12-22 10:07:13 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have had this happen to me once before and we were dating for two months. i continued to let it drag on of not talking for an entire month and then broke it off. if he doesn't respect you enough to aknowledge you enough to even give you a phone call then he obviously doesn't want to be in the relationship and either thinks that you will get the hint or is hoping that you will dump him so he doesn't have to face you.
2006-12-22 10:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by shattered heart :( 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks??? How would it feel after 6 months. DUMP him now. And make it obvious that you are dumping him.
2006-12-22 10:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by cosmiccastaway 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is busy. Before you assume something bad, just try calling him, or ask him to go out and do something.
If he still doesn't want to hang out or talk, then yes break up with him. I had a boyfriend when i was in 10th grade, and we stopped talking, but we never 'broke up' so it was uncomgortable when i saw him a year or so later. So try to talk to him and see how he feels. Good luck!
2006-12-22 10:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless I'm missing something here...if he's not talking to you...he's already made a decision to leave you go. In other words, for him it's already over and there's nobody left to dump.
2006-12-22 10:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a three week relationship, if things aren't working this fast, then it isn't worth the time to put energy into the relationship. Drop him, and find someone really worth your time :).
Honestly it sounds like he wants to end the relationship and doesn't have the guts to do it.
2006-12-22 10:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by bluechick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has probably dumped you but doesn't have the courage to face you.
Move on, to a guy with more guts
2006-12-22 10:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i believe first of all you have to ask him why he is not talking you, maybe he has some problems or something , when he tells you you will now what to do (depends how much you like him anyway)
2006-12-22 10:11:18 · answer #7 · answered by rastagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his sorry a** before he gets the chance to dump you
2006-12-22 10:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by Her 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to make it work with someone who refuses to talk..I would let it go...dump him
2006-12-22 10:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im dealin with the same thing i say dump him its not worth your time to try and work at somethin by yourslef
2006-12-22 10:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_enchanted2320032005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋