I have been doing all the things my friends have been telling me but no boys like me or give me their number. I need help!!
2006-12-22 08:57:22 · 32 answers · asked by Weirdsciencehottie38 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't call the boys let them call you. The trick is to look good & act like you could care less if a boy likes you or not. Got it ! Good luck.
2006-12-22 09:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by GJfromfla 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The real question here is what are your friends telling you to do?
This works the same way as everything else in life. If it isn't working you need to change something.
Guys are always wanting to date girls. But they have to know your available. If your shy you more than likely don't let them know and in fact look like you wish they would leave you alone.
With girls it is much more complicated than with guys. Guys are easy. Smile at them when you walk by and don't look away and you will have guys all over you. And if you are meeting them but not getting numbers like you said, try giving yours out. That will get any guys attention.
2006-12-22 09:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you desire a boyfriend you have to act naturally. Act as you would with anyone but be yourself and do not put on airs or try to be overly friendly or nice. People hate that. The best thing to do is to find a guy you think is friendly and outgoing. Maybe ask your friends who they think is a nice guy and who they think is a gentleman and is nice to girls. Don't pick one who is necessarily the most popular and don't choose someone who is quiet. It is the quiet ones you should avoid. Once you zero in on some guy you think is nice and friendly and seems unattached just start staring at him and smiling even if he is not looking your way. Keep staring at him until he notices you and keep smiling at him. Once you have his attention keep smiling and don't take your eyes off him. If after a while he doesn't start walking toward you then you slowly start walking toward him and keep smiling and don't take your eyes off him. Once you get up to him still smiling just say, "Hi." I am sure a conversation will begin. Trust me.
2006-12-22 09:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
BE PATIENT!
When I was single, I looked everywhere for a boyfriend. I tried so hard. But then I got to two years, and I gave up. I wasn't looking anymore, and I was just going through life without a boyfriend. Then when I least expected it the love of my life came and swept me off my feet.
I just wish I would have been more patient. I just wonder what would have happened if I would have learned that lesson earlier than two years.
I know it's hard to be patient but trust me, it works.
2006-12-22 09:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok ok...calm down. i had this problem...what you need to do...i am not joking...you need to be GORGEOUS and let the guys know you are single. i don't mean through word...i mean...like...choose a guy you like and tell lots of people until everyone knows u r single and if he likes you, great, and if not...at least people will know u r single. be urself.i dunno what to say...i went through this...until i became really pretty and outgoing and....i already liked all the guy hobbies(videogames, guitar, music, computers, comix, running around like an idiot, drawing, sports, parties, dirty jokes ajjajjaa etc)so...guys will start asking if u're dating and stuff...i dunno...find more friends. i always hated when people said stuff to me like "boyfriends are a hassel" or "just wait." "enjoy the single life" "love will come to you" "wait" " wait and don't seem desperate" etc...but i hate to say it to you>
xao
good luck
perfume bebe;D
2006-12-22 09:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make urself seen by the guy u want. And if u don't know how to do that....................Welp, then ur in some deep sh*t, Lemme do u a favor, here's my number i'll be ur man 301-555-2514 my lines are open 24/7
2006-12-22 09:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Only1me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stop looking for boys and focus on being a girl,..fix your hair ,..make yourself as pretty as possible and smell like fresh cut flowers,..and completely pamper yourself,..
there will be a line of guys fighting for your love.
2006-12-22 09:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by iroc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask the guy or guys you like out for a soda and if they have a really good time then they might ask to be your girlfriend if that doesn't work out you can ask the people that like you and give them a try even if they aren't your crushes hope this helps
:) or :(
2006-12-22 09:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by stephiepoohbearcats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should be more cool, laid back, and the boys will come to you. Girls who try to hard to get a man, are the ones ppl call desperate!
2006-12-22 09:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are not ready for a boyfriend. Let the boy find you, don't worry about it.
2006-12-22 08:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋