okay, my best freind in the hole world is going out with this really HOT guy. He is also really sweet. I hset the two up but now im starting to regret it, i've been talking too him alot and I feel like im starting to have a crush on him. I hope not because it would be bad. But I think he might like me back. Like he will call me alot and we'll hang out with out her. I want to be loyal to my freind but i dont know how much loge I'll be able to stand with out having a seious relationship with him. I'm worryed about my friend though. Because I care about her above him. But when he hugs me I just want to kiss him. I'mm worried that It will always be like think OMG i'm really freaked out. I love my friend to death, And you guys probably thing i'm a slut for even thinking about my best friends guy, but I dont know if I can handle not being able to kiss him. Me and her are going to his new years party and I just know that somthing bad will happen. I think i love him. But I love her more.
2006-12-22 08:57:06 · 20 answers · asked by Shelby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
weel,i ithkn u shuld see if she wants him as bad as u do ,and let him know verryy slowly that u r starting to like him,first get his trust and play a game like truth r dare and as khim if he ever liked u r sometihng..it's cute and he'll probably b truthful.good luck
2006-12-22 09:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by 321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you indeed have issues. Right now you are in high school and you think every relationship means you love the person. You didnt want to be with this guy and you introduced him to your friend. Now that he is with her you want him. Most people want what they cant have. You had your chance and you didnt want him. Now leave him alone. How can you be loyal to anyone and your lying to your best friend. Men will come and go but you will never have to many true friends in your life. Oops I am sorry you dont know what a friend is. A Friend doesn't go behind her best friends back just to be with a guy. Some men dont care if they sleep with friends. Is he worth not having her as a friend. Nothing good can come from being with him.
2006-12-22 09:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already answered your own question. By admitting that your friendship comes before your feelings towards this guy,you know what you have to do. It's time to let him go and remain friends only.Someday when the situation changes,perhaps you can explore a relationship with him,but now is not the time.
2006-12-22 09:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sweetie but you've already been disloyal to your friend. This is something you have to talk to only her about. You may have to call this a loss, to him. Because to keep your friendship, you have to completely wipe him out. This is so weird to me because me and my best girlfriends have completely different taste.Eww, I could never got after their mates. Girl, you have to be a better friend that's just plain wrong..and if he is into you don't you think if you two hooked up he'd be just as into another girl??? Think about how you look right now to him and then to her when she finds out! Cause she will whether you tell her or not!
2006-12-22 09:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop thinking so crazy. There are tons of guys out there. For your to try and steal your best friends b/f is selfish and wrong. There is no realistic scenario where this will work out. Even if you kiss him and it seems perfect for a day, it will soon lead to more drama, arguments, and trouble than it is worth.
2006-12-22 09:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Rebbew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... ok. this is what I'd do. I'd tell my best friend that i have a crush on her boy friend. i know kinda weird but i would. Then like a day or two later I'll ask her if the relationship is working out. If it isn't I'd say so would you care if i dated him IF you broke up? then if she says no. I'd say oh. ok. then look for another guy. if she said yes then I'd wait patiently till they break up. Wellz Good Luck!
2006-12-22 09:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. um..i think of im going to ought to believe certainly everybody right here which you're tremendously youthful..i understand my question sounded so clueless, yet im 22 quickly to be 23 and the guy im chatting with is 26, so we are previous as dirt. yet there is quite no age shrink on understanding whilst its the real element. and im caught at present... lol. yet i've got been there, performed that, sang that song.. plz basically concentration on college. u can like him, yet he's off limits bc he's your bff bf.. u might harm her undesirable via chatting with him. and at that age, boys would be boys. if he will pass away her for u, think of him leaving u for the subsequent woman.. be careful, boys opt to place bets at that age too.. utilising the " dude i guess u 20 greenbacks i will date the two one in each and every of them".. its no longer worth it. pals in basic terms come a dime a dozen, and you will meet sooooooo many super dudes in a protracted time too. once you get to be my age, and u adventure lots greater, you will see what we mean..good success sweetie
2016-10-15 11:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK
well tell ur mate that he is Cute and that she is really lucky to have him!
Take her to a nice restaurant and slowly say in a jokey way that u used to fancy him!
If she says " ok thats ok he's hott after all, and you're only human"
then thats ok and you know that she is not too over protective
If she says " he's my man Lay off" then slowly say that you don't fancy him any more!
It may be sneaky but if it helps you to feel better then go ahead! xx
2006-12-22 09:02:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. if he likes you. obviously he's no good for ur friend because he ahs a commitment to her as a bf. you have a commitment to her as a friend. that doesn't mean you can't like her bf but it means you should respect her.
talk to your friend about it. and since her bf is obviosuly flirting back.. well you're screwed. no ur not a hoe.. or watever.. i've been in this situation before SORTA. but.. just let things work out themselves.
2006-12-22 09:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if roles were vice versa, if you knew that your friend likes you boyfriend will you like it ? I dont think so !!
I believe that no guy is worth risking a friendship..
try 2 talk 2 this guy less, dont hug him much ! try 2 keep a distance between u & him ..
2006-12-22 09:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋