are girls attracted to guys who are very sensitive, to the scary point. like when i get upset i cry and girls say that thats a good quality to be sensitive, yet other girls tell me its bad to cry. and also, most of my friends are girls. is this a problem? is there anything i could do to appeal more to girls?
2006-12-22 08:55:27 · 21 answers · asked by Tommy T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like when my ex would bring up breaking up i would ball crying and im jus very emotional. i think part of the reason i have many girl friends is beacuse im an actor by the way.
2006-12-22 09:06:35 · update #1
it is ok to cry and be sensitive as long as you are not over doing the sensitive part... i like a manly man...but when the time is right i like a man to be able to show the sensitive side just a little bit... no it is not a problem that most of your friends are girls, but maybe that would intimidate other potential dates...
2006-12-22 09:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by crystal s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to cry too much, maybe it's a bit wrong. And I think girls like when guys are sensitive to girls, and not get hurt and girls make fun of the guys. It's not a major problem, because it's something you can fix. Just don't look/act sissy or get in touch with your feminine side too much. That wouldn't look too good.
2006-12-22 09:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, girls don't really like guys that cry. We are emotional and its hard to deal with a guys who is really emotional too. There is only enough room for one girl in the relationship. Its ok to be nice and sweet, but not cry all the time. For guys, I would say that only time I wanna see you cry is if your mom dies, or possibly if you're getting married or some girl really really broke your heart. Other than that, nah, crying is inappropriate... To appeal to girls, just be confident in who you are. Girls are always attracted to the confident guy.
2006-12-22 09:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by __XXX___ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with sensitivity in a man as long as he is not a wimp and is just too emotional with everything.
But a man that can cry is a man who is secure in his manhood but also knows that the emotional strings of his heart can be tugged at times.
2006-12-22 08:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop crying, Nancy.
It's good to be sensitive every once in a while. But if you cry everytime you get upset that would just be a turn-off.
Get involved in a sport or a team or a club that has a lot of guys, get some guy friends.
2006-12-22 08:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nothing wrong with a man showing his emotions. I think it's a strong quality in a guy. When a man is not afraid to be a man THEN he is a REAL man. You should be secure in your manhood cause YOU are a REAL MAN. I see no reason girls are not attracted to you unless they are still looking for BOYS.
BTW...I'm a girl (way over 21)
2006-12-22 09:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who is TOO SENSITIVE is totally not appealing .. It's nice when a guy drops a tear when you bring up the topic of breaking up, or when there is something wrong with u.. But not on every topic.. Such guys arent guys anymore !!
2006-12-22 09:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying is not bad, unless you cry for every single thing. Theres a tme to be manly and a time to show your feminine side. (nothing mean but every man has a feminine side here and there)
2006-12-22 09:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by live, love, laugh often! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is good for a guy to cry and be sensitive!!! u're lucky. girls like that in a guy. don't change a thing!
2006-12-22 08:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cry when I get kicked really hard in the nads, because they are sensitive.
2006-12-22 09:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by Nuts 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋