i ran into mah ex on thankgsgiving and every since then we've been talking like we're goin out but he has a gilfriend i mean i don't noe her but i'm a female and i don't want him to hurt her but he was mah first love then i there's da guy i'm talking to i mean it wasn't luv at first sight like in the otha but i've grown to luv him and the his ways they both say it's love but which do i pick?????????
2006-12-22 08:48:45 · 9 answers · asked by PoRsChE N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
speak and spell obviously has its disadvantages....
ive come in great terms with the fact that:
a) you cant spell to save that turkey's life
b) "noe" is spelled so wrong its sickening...
have a nice life
2006-12-22 08:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hunny,
You've got a problem!
Some people might tell you to suck it up and stick with thw one your with, or to just follow your heart. But to you, picking one of these answers is oging to change your life! Talk to your ex, let him now how you feel, make sure he feels the same way, why did you break up before? was it because he did something, or because you just needed time? if its because he did something make sure he is genuinly sorry, if its because you did something, make sure you would never hurt him again. But it sounds like you don't really love this ither guy! I mean you might care about him, and if you do love him are you IN LOVE with him. there is a difference. But if you have to ask some stranger on the internet what to do, i think you should just play out your life 5 years down the road with either of these guiys and chose the path you like the most. As for the other people, it might sound selfish, but are they really going to be happy with a partner that regrets being with them?
Hope I helped, Bye
2006-12-22 08:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by briacass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pick eather one. You have time so use it to find out what you really want and need and go after that! Everything should work out for the best if you give it time. I would put this whole thing behind you; tomorrow will be a better day. Just try and think with your head and not your heart right now. You seem very intelligent to me so I think you will make the right choice! :)
2006-12-22 09:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have been with this ex boyfriend and obviously there was reasons for why you still are not together. If I was you, I wouldn't be too quick to dump the new guy just because you are feeling things of your past.
I believe they call it reminiscent thoughts that carry old feelings with them.In the end your likely to end up loosing something that could be great to be with something that is just a memory haunting back at you instead of reality.Just take more time with this.Nothing wrong with wanting to be sure so, talk to this ex and see how things go. If down the road you are sure your still head over heels for him and he is for you then go with your heart.But I have a feeling its just memories girl.
Good luck!
2006-12-22 08:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Dear...=)
You seem young, and well....not really "in love" with either....so, in that situation, I'd say keep them both....
Since you seem to only be in it for the fun, and not any real depth of feeling, it makes no real difference. You may as well amuse yourself until the real Mr. Right comes along.
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-22 08:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay 1) mah? its my
2) da? the
3) otha? other
wow what kind of world do we live in when its considered "cool" to not speak correctly
wow
and two follow your heart
2006-12-22 08:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD BE WITH THE ONE YOU JUST MET THE ONE YOU GROWN TO LOVE. BECAUSE I KNOW YOU LOVE THE EX BUT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND. AND IF HE REALLY WANTED TO BE WITH YOU HE WOULD BREAK UP WITH HER AND BE WITH YOU. SO MOVE ON FROM THE EX AND BE WITH THE NEW GUY!!!
2006-12-22 08:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by princess1001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pic ur currnt one cuz ur ex hade to do soming wrong and that why u guys arnt 2gether any more
2006-12-22 08:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by manslayergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hooked on phonics worked for me.
2006-12-22 08:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by mimilala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋