I always go to club with my friends (girls). Lately my friends aren't going clubbing to much and i wanted to go with my boyfriend this weekend. He is not too much into dancing but since we been together for 3 years, he likes to do pretty much anything with me. The problem i have is that. My boyfriend doesn't like club too much but he is ok with going. I wanted to go today just me and him no friends. Do you think that a bad idea?
2006-12-22 08:41:23 · 25 answers · asked by LaDii Kiki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think thats a wonderful idea. Enjoy yourself. Please remember to never say anything negative like commenting on his dancing or "are you staring at the girl?' You just bought yourself a ticket to the singles club. Make sure you are very open to go places he likes. Good luck with your boyfriend and may you guys build a strong relationship together.
2006-12-22 08:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would that be a bad idea? Club music has a vibe that makes you want to shake booty - who better to shake it at? And the way most clubs are packed, you can pretty much do all the moving for the two of you. All he really has to do is stand there and rock back and forth. That's what half the guys do anyway.
2006-12-22 08:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats so not a bad idea...Me and my boyfriend do it all the time...you would think that we were the only two people there cause we completely block everybody out...but we have so much fun when we go. It takes a very confident man and woman to go out "clubbing" together as long as you are both confident..you'll have fun and there won't be any drama.
2006-12-22 08:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy One 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course not! That's part of a relationship, that sometimes you do something you aren't really interested in to support your partner. I am sure if you ask him nicely, he will go. And when you get there, if he doesn't want to dance, don't make him just find him a place to sit where he can be comfortable and then dance for him all sexy. Men love to watch us dance and they love to see us smile. If he sees you being sexy for him and having a blast he will be more open later to go with you again, and I bet you have some really good sex that night! Guys just hate it when you make them go somewhere and then ditch them, and DEFINITELY dont dance with any other guys. Have fun!
2006-12-22 08:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Princess~C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is it ever a bad idea to go anywhere as a couple. Are you a hooch on the dance floor and grind on all the guys and you are afraid he will get mad? I am not sure I understand the problem here.
2006-12-22 08:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Nuts 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I go just me and my boyfriend all the time to da club,it's lot of fun. My boyfriend isn't crazy about dancing but he likes to go with me and dance with me. I say go for it, and if it sucks, you know not to go again. It's something different to do anyway, right?
2006-12-22 08:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Abcdefg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Clubbing isn't a bad thing if you keep it in perspective. Have fun with friends and keep inviting him to go along. Just don't do anything that you wouldn't want him to do.
2006-12-22 08:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by mojonah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a great idea. Take him out and go. Even if it is just you dancing at least he'll be watching and drag him out with you to dance. If he refuses then he has no grounds to get mad at you for dancing innocently with others. You are having a grea time
2006-12-22 08:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by RoadRunner 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Prez say not a horrible idea. Prez say as long as you not have other boyfriend at club. Prez say dance sexy with boyfriend. Prez say you take him home and rip off clothes. Prez say sounds like good man if he go with you and let you go with girls. Prez not like clubs. Prez prefer small bars with jukebox and pool table. Prez say have fun with boyfriend in club. Prez say hope boyfriend doesnt look too much at other girls at club. Prez better know.
2006-12-22 08:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Of course not. Take him and try to get him to enjoy himself. If he doesnt seem to get into it then leave. Don't make him have a bad night. Sometimes you have to be pushed into something to enjoy it. Then after y'all are done, ask him what he wants to do and then DO IT no matter what. Be fair and show that since he took the time to take interest you should also repay and show that his interest matter to you too.
2006-12-22 08:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by Vasha 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋