Is my man a pothead if his bestfriend is one???

Question

my boyfriend bestfriend is a pothead and hangs around a lot of ppl who is so when he come from his friends house he and his clothes wreaks of it he claims he doesnt smoke but once when i was sleeping in his bed i heard him when he came in and instead of getting in the bed with me he took a shower...im thinking hes being considerate by not funking up the bed, so he gets in the bed after the shower but heres the kicker.....i smell toothpaste!!!! at the risk of sounding like a person with bad hygene who the hell brushes theyre teeth before they go to bed late at night..........shooot not me! I told him before if you do thats your thing...is he lying and why ppl help me out

Answer 1

Well, he is breathing it in while he's around it, so maybe he thinks his breath will smell like it. But who knows? When he comes home, pay attention to how he acts, and see if he acts different then he usually does.

Answer 2

I used to smoke pot often. every day, ten - twenty times a day. and most people I knew did it too. some did not and never started it. when I got tiered of it and quit, I never wanted it any more. still know many folks that do smoke it and I am around them often enough but, I just don't have any interest in it any more. he could be the same way.

Answer 3

You're right, who comes in from a night out and wash up and brush their teeth. Has he ever done it before? How often? That sounds more like cheating to me. Yeah, he's cheating and smoking.

Answer 4

She really needs to get out of that relationship, whether she ends up going out with you or not. That guy is just bad news. I would tell her that as her friend, you're concerned about her happiness and her safety and that he is clearly making her unhappy and is not being good to her or treating her right. If her family agrees, I'd suggest getting their support when you tell her this too. Good luck with this!

Answer 5

You know the old saying "Birds of a feather flock together." Anyone around people that are smoking and he's not is not going to fit in. He's either going to join the party or walk away for good.

Answer 6

Well why don't you just ask him straight up? There are worse things he could be like a crackhead. But alas, I get wher eyou are coming from because I don't smoke and wouldn't like if the guy I dated did (because I think it makes people lazy).
Just because his best friend is does not mean he is. But he may feel more inclined to smoke if he is around it.
Just ask him. He won't lie to ya!
MERRY CHRISTMAS! :)

Answer 7

Not necessarily.
A lot of people brush their teeth before they go to bed....at least the ones who don't want cavities.
And I always brush when I get out of the shower.
Do you not know your boyfriend well enough to know whether or not he's high?

Answer 8

Try this....if his eyes are bloodshot, half-closed, and red then he is probably high. If he comes home and you can't tell the difference, you are making him guilty by association, which is unfair.

Also FYI, you should brush your teeth at night.

Answer 9

could just be that his bestfriend is .. but therez a thing called peer presure.. and if he see's his friends toking up , im pretty sure that he would... unless he had some other reason not to ... if u told him "thats your thing" than im pretty sure he thinks that it's alrite with you... try telling him that you love him more than maryjane and that you feel like when he smokes he's cheating on you...

Answer 10

maybe he ate something with onions it .. just because his Friends are pot heads don't mean he is one.. i should know my bf is a pot head and i don't touch the stuff..but there are other signs you can look out for.. like always sleeping or lack of energy...always broke.. that stuff cost a lot..uncontrollable laughter at the wrong times