Well i'm going to see this girl who i love with all my heart next year, early as poss...and she loves me too with all her heart, i was going to ask her to move down here with me....i know she'd be leaving her life behind, but would she say yes?
Afterall she says she loves me with all her heart....
2006-12-22 08:11:06 · 21 answers · asked by Hadouken! [Ryu] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It wont work if you live far away. I think that you should ask her to move in with you. If she "loves you with all her heart" then there should be no problem leaving her life behind. Try it out.
Good Luck ; )
2006-12-22 08:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by debi h 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to discourage you but speaking from experience, it does NOT work. I have no faith in long d relationship, as mine only lasted a month or so. And the guy is not even someone I just met over the Internet, it's an old time friend who moved to another country to work.
Even if she does move down with you, you may find out that you two are incompatible once you really get together and know each other more. I am not sure how close you are to this girl and how you met her but it's very different to communicate over the phone/internet than communicating in person. It's more like a friend when it's just chatting over the phone.
If she's willing to move down to your place, then it will not be a long d relationship anymore, so there's nothing to worry about. If you post this question because you want to know what's the chance that she will be willing to move down with you, then my advice is stop thinking about it and just ask her when you two meet. It's pointless to worry yourself and keep guessing her answer, you'll just make yourself unhappy now.
2006-12-22 08:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by durian 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course it will works if you both have this LOVE. believe me or not, me and my husband just meet through Internet. we both live in both side of the world, just communicating everyday through emails and phone calls, we find in love each others and we never met yet. by the time we first meet, was our wedding. it sounds unbelievable that even my whole family says it's impossible, but there's no impossible in this world if you really believe in LOVE, and now we've been married for nearly 4 years and had our first baby last July this year!!! so far our marriage life is so good!!! since due to my culture once a woman will get married she have to go with her husband. although it's been a bit sad at first to be away from my family as we have a very close tight family but it's time for me to move on to my new life. but sometimes it depends on both of you how strong your love for each other and how you deal your life that make it success and not like the rest . just try maybe this is a good fate of yours. good luck!!!
2006-12-22 08:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Simply_Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can work. you both have to agree on where to live, if neither one of you is willing to compromise then there will be big problems. You two should evaluate the pros and cons of living in both places. If one of you moves without truly wanting too then there will end up being resentment and that is hard to over come. It takes work but it can be done.
2006-12-22 08:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by elephantfun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on age first off. long distance relationships don't usually go very well. not to say they never work, but you need to be able to grow with the person. is there any reason you won't move down there.
also, make sure you are commited. moving in with your significant other isn't always the best idea, but if you have intentions of getting married, go for it. just be careful.
2006-12-22 08:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by SHANNON. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My parents started as one. He's from Boston, she's from Milwaukee. They met when he was a navy boy stationed in Chicago on a blind date. their dating time and the first couple of years were all long distance, and they've been married going on 42 years.
2006-12-22 08:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. If both of you are dedicated on making things work, it will. She should move if she's ready. After all, she'll be leaving one life behind and begin a new one.
2006-12-22 08:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by January Flower 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loving some one is not the be all and end all, we also have lives that are difficult to change inc commitments. It does not matter whether she does or not you can make it work if it is true love no matter how far apart
2006-12-22 08:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by suzie1968uk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the type of lifestyle she has right now. just give her some time after you ask her to move that is a big step & make you sure you are ready for her to move in with you
2006-12-22 08:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by san8483 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are lies that high school kids tell eachother the summer before they go to college so they can get some ***.
2006-12-22 08:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋