The most important thing to know before you marry is that you love them and they love you. However there are many other things that discussing with you fiance will help you enter your marriage with a better idea of who you are marrying.
Do you both want children and if so, how many?
Do you both agree on who should be working (he, she, or both)?
Do you agree with each other's religious beliefs? If you go to different type of churches where will you attend together and how will the children be brought up?
Do you both have the same financial expectations, realizations, and plans?
If you are from different parts of the country, where will you live (near his family, near her family, or somewhere else)?
Do you agree on plans of how to share holidays with the two families? And how will this plan change when children enter the picture?
What do the two of you have in common?
Can you talk honestly with each other? Even about personal things?
Do you share similar political beliefs?
I am not saying that you need to be in total agreement on all these things, but where there is disagreement it is better to know about it before you enter the marriage so both of you have a better idea what you are getting into.
Congratulations and best wishes.
2006-12-22 11:55:02
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answered by Anonymous
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The simple answer is "yourself". Know yourself. Learn to know yourself, to acknowledge yourself, to love yourself. You are truly the greatest person you know. If you truly love yourself and can accept yourself as you are without judgment, then you will be able to accept another person in your life. If you can't accept yourself you will have trouble accepting others. It really is as simple as that.
2006-12-22 16:09:26
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answered by judgebill 7
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their full name
where their from
their parents
their age
their birthday
do they love you
favorite cany
favorite food
favorite resteraunt
you should know your mate inside out
2006-12-22 16:10:54
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answered by cute amber 4
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Your link don't work.
2006-12-22 16:10:49
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answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7
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Are the things that are really important to you also important to him? Do you love him warts and all? Does he love you warts and all?
2006-12-22 16:35:07
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answered by babydoll 7
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bad habits
credit issues
marital status (you never know)
employment
criminal issues
drug/alcohol issues
2006-12-22 16:14:11
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answered by kd s 2
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Found out his credit score!
2006-12-22 16:12:22
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answered by Barb 3
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the true meaning of marriage, commitment, communication and forever.
2006-12-22 16:15:47
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answered by nwnativeprincess 6
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ahh barb is so right!! know his credit score!
2006-12-22 23:57:54
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answered by Christines256 3
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