Where does the anger come from? Look inside yourself and find out where in your body you feel the anger. Follow that feeling back, into your life history. What is it that makes you angry and what is behind that anger? Anger usually comes form self-judgment and self-criticism or criticism of traits or conduct you find in others that you know you have yourself and don't like in yourself. Learn to accept yourself without judgment. You are the best friend you have, and the greatest person you know. So don't get angry with yourself, honor yourself, celebrate yourself. Try it, it works.
2006-12-22 07:39:26
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answered by judgebill 7
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Don't rush into another relationship until you are happy with yourself because if you carry that anger and bitterness into it then it will be affected, end, and the cycle you wish to break will be continued.
2006-12-22 08:16:55
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answered by S D Modiano 5
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your anger problems may or may not have to do with messed up relationships. perhaps is just that's how you show how you're feeling. anger is an emotion that can be controlled by reasoning. it is a choice you make to get angry. don't blame it on others. this is how you choose to act or behave. as for the possibility that others have caused this anger in you, NO. you have allowed others to do to you whatever, and its taken you to this level. it is easier to make oneself happy that it is to be angry. it takes mind changing mechanish learned through practices. for example. no one or nothing can get you angry unless you allowed it to. if you're relationships are causing you anger, than you also have to learn to choose better when it comes to a guy. seek what you want as well as how you want to be treated. don't settle for whatever, just because. if that's the case, choose to stay relationship free for a while, and focus on YOU.
2006-12-22 07:39:54
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answered by sassy 2
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Stop thinking over it. Everybody goes through a few bad relationships. We have to stop thinking all future relationships will be like the bad ones we had, otherwise we could lose on something great.
Take some time on your own, with your friends. Ger hobbies, forget about guys... it'll get better if you stop thinking about it.
2006-12-22 07:32:17
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answered by Anonymous
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You really need a supportive foundation. Where are your girlfriends? If you don't have any, seek professional assistance to try to calm your anger. You can even im me and we can talk about it. Don't let anger consume you because you'll end up all alone.
2006-12-22 07:37:24
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answered by Anonymous
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ok, for one element, your boyfriend does not admire you through fact he's basically too busy dozing with yet another woman. he's not waiting to be a father, he's not even husband fabric through fact if he replaced into waiting for that, he might have made it valid and you've been his spouse! Are you no longer frightened of catching some affliction from him from dozing around like that? i for my area think of which you ought to the two tell him to pass away or you progression wherein incorporate your mother and father. initiate looking after your daughter and your self too through fact this guy you reside with isn't mature and isn't any longer to blame to be a father on your daughter. what's greater substantial at present could be your daughter. And a minimum of you ought to have your mother and father who love her and help you guard her till you ought to be on your guy or woman.
2016-10-15 11:08:57
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answered by ? 4
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You just have to move on.Forget about your past relationsips and
start back dating.If you are not ready to date just be friends and
take it from there.It's going to take so time to get over your bitterness but try to work on it.
2006-12-22 07:38:26
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answered by preciousm 1
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Well first off sorry you had so many bad men.You need to slow down and get a real man who can respect and treat you like a lady awww someone like me lol
2006-12-22 07:35:47
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answered by workin_man66 3
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don't. rather learn from the pain and make a better effort in new relationships.
2006-12-22 07:34:10
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answered by Anonymous
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you have to suck it up and go for another guy- remember the new guy isn't the old guy and give them an honest chance from the start.
2006-12-22 07:32:36
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answered by torgy 1
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