I have a HUGE crush on this guy, and the word got out and now he knows. He thinks it's cool, mainly becuase he's in 8th grade and I'm in 9th grade.But I'm the youngest one in my class so our age difference isn't too big. And we go to the same school so it's okay. Before he knew I liked him, we hardly ever spoke a word to eachother but now that he knows he's been paying more attention to me like stopping to say hi and walk with me to class. But he confuses me! He'll flirt with me one day and then the next day I'm invisible to him. But one day on IM my name said "I wish u would notice me" and he asked who I was referring to. I said no one in particular, but then he asked "is it me?" so I said "what if it is?" and he said "Well, if it is then I'd say yes I do notice you." It made me all happy and we had a really good convo afterwards. But the next day when we saw eachother, our eyes met...but we quickly looked away, like always! I know it's because I'm shy but I don't know about him.
2006-12-22 07:22:07 · 23 answers · asked by *Manda* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's into you. Men won't say they are if they aren't. You're both still very young and he's more than likely shy when it comes to a face-to-face encounter. Give it time, sounds like it's heading somewhere!
2006-12-22 07:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Emily M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, sounds like he is shy too, not only that but he is intimidated by you, which is a good thing. That gives you control, which you probably don't like. I bet he is just as confused as you. Since you are the "older woman" and a grade ahead, you should be the one who makes the attempt to fan the fire. Go talk to him and see if he wants to hang out or go see a movie sometime. You could find out if he is having trouble in a class that you have already taken. The reason why he acts like you're invisible is because he doesn't want to seem to eager... but have no doubt that he sees you. You could call him out on it next time he does it. Try and make a joke about him being blind or optically challenged.
2006-12-22 07:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, guys aren't too different than girls when it comes to that kinda stuff. you said u were shy so u looked away...duhh! he's shy so he looked away too! it's prolly hard being the guy in this situation cuz all the pressure is on him and he's shy 2. it would be rlly hard 4 u to talk to him if u knew he liked u...he definately likes you. just give it time and help him out sometimes so it's not so scary for him. like instead of waiting for him to start a convo, u start it...he's prolly waiting for you to say something cuz he doesn't know what to say or how to act.
2006-12-22 07:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Surfergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH for god's sake. He obviously like you. He is just the typical shy idiot. That means yu have to draw him in yourself. Show interest in another boy and see if he wakes up a little. Wear someting a little on the sexy side one day and wear it as though it were the most normal thing in the world for you. Watch him stare and go mad with longing.
Wind him up and then order hin to ask you out and tel him where he has to take you. Perhaps he hasnd had enough practise to be as over the top forward with women as I am... but thats cool. Give him his orders after winding him up a little. You can only succeed. Have fun now.
Brendan
2006-12-22 07:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Brendan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember feeling that way at your age. It took a long time for my first love to realize that I liked as more than just a casual friend. Maybe if you are just upfront and completly honest about your feelings for him then maybe he will understand how you feel about him and possibly it will help you to find out if he feels the same way. If he doesn't that's ok too there are plenty of guys in this world that I'm sure that you'll fell this way about and that will share the same fellings. So just try it and if everything works out the way you want them to then that's great if not then it's his loss. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-12-22 07:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Vegas mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop beating around the bush. You only live once. Approach him and tell him you would like to go out with him and see what he says. It will save you weeks of small talk and if you find he is not really interested, you will not waste anymore time and you can move on to someone else. It also less emotionally devastating the sooner you find out. Less emotional investment is sometimes better. Hope this helps.
2006-12-22 07:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don`t quite provide sufficient info, yet she does sound very shy. possibly you ought to progressively help out of her shell. Don`t overdo it in the past each and every thing. basically attempt to get to assert something if it`s in basic terms `particular` or `no` or despite. With people like this you ought to very mushy and careful. She mustn`t think of for a 2nd you're `after her` - or you`ll in no way get everywhere.
2016-10-15 11:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breeaaath, there's nothing wrong with him. he's just acting his age. give him space and give yourself space. what's the rush. concentrate on school. get good grades. get into extra activities that help YOU develop perhaps a talent you may have and don't know about it. believe me, with a good education you will go farther than with a good looking guy. focus on your future. not on what guys want, think or if they're shy or not. when you have a good academic background, you'll find guys you didn't even know could exist.
2006-12-22 07:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by sassy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is interested in you and is shy- this will never change unless one of you takes the first step- since he says he notices you why don't you ask him out to a movie or to dinner some weekend night? Hope it works out!
2006-12-22 07:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by torgy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is interested--and it sounds like he is definitely making an effort, but at times gets shy because he is waiting for you to flirt back. By being "invisible" sometimes, he is waiting for you to say something--I think you should go for it. :):) Good luck!!
2006-12-22 07:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋