Im still wondering why the cute girls date unemployed azzholes?

Question

someone else asked this too.

i think surgergirl hit on the real deal.
the azzholes make moves faster, but that doesnt mean you have to accept them.

Answer 1

Because those guys that dont have a job are usually out mooching off friends trying to find the next good time and they dont let anyone rule them. Girls dont want this much of an extreme but its too hard for them to find a guy who is genuinly nice and also have the QUALITIES of the jerks, and they are qualities, nice guys just dont have them because they think they will be mean or a jerk if they do the same thing. Unavailable, cocky attitude, own life, and the girl also tells herself that she cant get that attached to this kind of guy but her heart always rules and she cant get out of it. So maybe be the jerk when you meet the girl and then she will find out you are a nice guy down the road she wont be able to leave, remember, we are men we choose who we want to be with, not the other way around.

Answer 2

I don't like to call myself cute, but lots of guys think I am. So, there you go. I don't get it either! Take Trace Adkins song LADIES LOVE COUNTRY BOYS for example. That girl was on her way to a law degree and the idiot left it all behind for a boy that will either leave her behind or make her a poor dirty momma with no money or popularity. I am very unlike most girls, I guess. i've had four boyfriends and all of them had rich families, were planning on or already attending college, and had a good career picked out. I refuse to date anyone else!!! Furthermore, I'm going to be an attorney and I will not work my butt off and pay all our bills while my husband sits at home and does nothing! I'll only marry a man with a good career and sinse I date to marry, I'll not going to waste my time dating worthless azzholes, either! LOL! I think though that girls date those guys cause they(the girls) are stupid and not thinking about the future at all! Those guys are a LOTTA FUN for a while, but the choices we make today affect tomorrow!

Answer 3

Umm, hate to burst your bubble, but by and large, they don't. If that were the case, I'd be a *pimp* by now surely, ok? ;)

*Most* cute girls do what they've always done....stick to their clique, peers their own age who just happen to be those "cute guys" they've known from 'round the way since *grade school*. And people outside the clique get ignored at best, outright dissed at worst. But yeah, that is a distinction that isn't too relevant from our POV as rejection is still rejection....the result is the same even if it doesn't quite fit the stereotype you want it to.

But....I will admit there are a *few* cute girls, who do in fact seem to do just as you say. There's a catch or two here though:

--The girls involved may be superficially cute, but the ones dating the jerks generally tend to have *issues* that their more conformist peers don't. Maybe they need more attention, or maybe they're hooked on the adrenaline rush that comes from dating a "bad boy"...

Or maybe that "bad boy" has been a *real* bad influence, getting the girl hooked on drugs and/or putting her through a wringer that has left her emotionally disturbed. Moral: You can't judge a book by its cover, some *really* cute women end up getting *really* sick in the head in life.

--A lot of these "bad boys" aren't just bad, they're awful. Predatory even, and both willing and *able* to abuse their ladies to maintain appearances. As in, the most successful jerks are *really* psycho and quite possibly willing to stoop really *really* low and do anything (violent and negative that is) to keep what they see as "theirs".

So yeah...I'd suggest a) that for the most part, what you say isn't all that true, it's just one reason out of many as to *why* an outsider gets rejected, and b) that even when it is true...you really aren't missing all that much. Cuteness doesn't cover everything in terms of issues and baggage.

Answer 4

Cute doesnt equal intelligence. But since the cute girls are all dating the jerks maybe you should look past first impressions on looks and look at the girls you dont consider as cute. They could have way more to offer you than the cute ones.

Answer 5

women say they want a nice guy but what they want is a nice guy who also shows an alpha stance. aggressive yet nice. strong yet good. jerks seem that way at first but have no staying power. but without a good alternative the women keep going back to them. on the other hand, maybe you just don't pick very well.

Answer 6

Sometimes it's because the unemployed loser "needs" the girl - she likes to feel wanted and needed, even if it's for the wrong reasons.

Answer 7

i rlly don't think they do...well, i guess most of the azz holes make moves faster cuz they're mostly bad boys, and aren't shy and considerate. i personally like the good boys...the nice, charming, thoughtful, successful ones. the unemployed freaks just creep me out.

Answer 8

Because idiots like you think unemployed people are not human beings! Becasue they are not after money and want a real man!

Answer 9

im cute & i wouldnt date someone thats unemployed....i do seem to find alot of azzholes tho! lol


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Answer 10

you know girls have lots of sympathy.so they find unemployed interesting and want to know more about their life, coz most of them have something unique. And thats what cute girls like, DIFFERENT & UNIQUE.