in september i had a boyfriend. it didn't work out so i broke up with him. then early in december, my little sister went out with him. i was mad that she went out with my ex but their relationship isn't so good.
i'm happy about it.should i feel bad about feeling good?
2006-12-22 07:15:59 · 17 answers · asked by sabine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cannot believe your sister went there. what else will she do. how can she go out with someone you dated. that's just not something that happens. you don't date the guy your sister broke up with. yuk!
2006-12-22 07:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the whole point is that your sister is the one in the wrong. Friends shouldn't date other friends ex, let alone...a sister should be the last one to do such a thing. I know its hard, but just let it go. You should of let your sis know about how you felt too. It doesn't look right upon her, people are probably calling her names in the streets, which is really bad. My older sister did the same thing, it didn't bother me much though after a bit, because I had him frist, but then people start saying you keep it in the family. But you control your emotions and no one else.
2006-12-22 07:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by hated.bymany 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's natural to feel good because you felt betrayed. A family member should never date another's ex. Be the bigger person and don't show your happiness about the bad relationship. It will only make you look better
2006-12-22 07:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Emily M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work things out with your little sister right now. Things are just going to escalate between you two until it gets worse. My little sister ruined my wedding. Forget the guy, you and your sister should want each other to be happy and that means your sister needs to stop leeching off of you and find her own guys. Trust me, until you work this out, it will never end.
2006-12-22 07:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by elionwy76 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont like him so naturally you dont want your sister stuck with him. I wouldnt feel bad about feeling happy it isnt working out. Just hope she is smart enough to realize it and break it off. You need to stay out of it and not say anything to her though.
2006-12-22 07:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if i was in ur shoes id feel the same way and worst if it did work out between them bcuz i dont think anyone would like their sister/brother to date their ex
2006-12-22 07:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt feel bad.
Friends shouldnt date freinds ex's SO a sister definitely shouldnt...I know my sister would never do that to me!
2006-12-22 07:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by MANDEE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whar kind of sister dates her sister's ex? What kind of sister feels good that her sister's relationship with him is going bad? You're both bad.
2006-12-22 07:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should feel horrible for being such a meanie, you should go out with your sisters ex boyfriend that way you'll be even and feel good.
2006-12-22 07:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. Feel good maybe your ex was a jerk that don't deserves your little sis too? right?
2006-12-22 07:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋