I need both male as well as female opinion on this situation... I've known this very attractive and amazingly good shape guy for about a year now. ( no he's not gay, trust me) anyways we sometimes get together for movie nights at his house and have wonderful converations (we only watch movies nothing more.... ) I have always been attracted to him, but decided to keep what I feel to myself. well I have been noticing that he's been giving me these signs... that he may also be attracted to me..but I'm not sure...( I'm an attractive woman and I workout 3 times a week)
The last time I was over at his house and we were watching a movie.. I was really into the movie mind you, when I felt him watching me, when I turn to look his way, he quickly turned away...so I thought nothing of it until I felt him staring again.. so I asked him if there was something wrong and he said no nothing...
after that I have been noticing he's been getting more comfortable with me. touching my arms, hugging me..
2006-12-22 07:11:52 · 5 answers · asked by kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I read more in to it or leave what we have alone.
2006-12-22 07:14:47 · update #1
When a guy likes someone more than just for sex, we do random things like that... though "gazing" is probably a better word than staring... you all look so beautiful its like having an angel sitting next to you. So yes, he likes you. maybe he's not sure how youre going to react to his feelings. You may not want to be totally forward abotu it, but maybe you might want to hug him while your movie watchign or seomthing. you know, somethign sweet just to tell him that he's got a chance.. see where it goes from there.. i think it'll work...
2006-12-22 07:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is definitely some chemistry there. It seems like he feels the same about you but he might be too shy to tell you. If neither of you are willing to admit to each other how you feel, the relationship might still remain casual. I think there might be a fear of rejection on both parts. Take a chance. Let him know. At least you have noticed the subtle signs that he might feel the same way.On a movie night you might suggest to play a game of truth and dare and confess your feelings for him. Be creative and good luck. I think there is a chance for romance.
2006-12-22 15:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by lovelyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's shy. It's obvious that he likes you - he probably doesn't know exactly how to broach the subject. Don't say anything - let him make the move in his own time. Just enjoy your time together - expecting nothing more. Men like to make the first move.
2006-12-22 15:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes girl make ur move ask himout i made that mistake too many time, and i kick my butt 4 it
2006-12-22 15:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sage Elizabethhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you are waiting for??????????? Electra shock therapy or something to jolt you into the conscious world that ...duh.... ask him out... yes he like you.... major...
2006-12-22 15:15:50 · answer #5 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋