Is he lazy or what?

Question

If a man wants sex but he normally doesn't make a move coz he's waiting for the girl to make a move first, but then he will be very passionate.

If a man always just lay on the couch and expressing wanting sex but not making any move.

If a man always say he has no energy to have intercourse, but wants the girl to give him ******** instead.

All of these above, can you tell me if this man is lazy or actully most men are like that? And what should the girl do about it?

Answer 1

No not normal, leave him & find someone who isn't lazy.

Answer 2

No, most men are NOT like that. At all.

He's either realllly lazy (I mean how many men wouldn't make a move on a willing woman? Sheesh) or he has a fetish about the woman being the aggressor.

What should you do about that?
1. First of all stop giving him ****** upon demand. If he has no energy for sex, then he should get more sleep. What are you, his sex slave?
2. Stop making the moves. See what happens if you just don't do the work.
3. Or keep making the moves, but become very dominating and bossy -- see what his reaction is to that.
4. My choice: leave his lazy butt and find a guy who can lift a finger.

Answer 3

some times it does not mean a guy is lazy. They want a woman to sometimes turn them on by sometimes making a move first. but if he is always expressing sex but not doing anything about it than ya his *** is lazy. Everyone wants to be turned on by their mate but the woman should not be the one that makes the move all the time. Its 50/50 My thought about the fact about he has no energy to have intercourse then he has no energy for the other thing either.

Answer 4

You might have to start by looking at all aspects of the problem: All of your problems with him involve sex. Could you holding secret resentment towards the fact that you always are expected to meet HIS sexual demands and how OFTEN it's happening? Hitting more closely to home, there are several possibilities. He could be somewhat of a male-chauvenist, he might be turned on by a woman in power; sexually liberated and totally comfortable with her sexuality, he could be insecure, or he could just very well be lazy.The only way to know for SURE instead of assuming and cursing him out on what you THINK it could be, Simply ask him why he never initiates sex.

Answer 5

Lazy isn't the right word, how about a loser ? No, not all men are like that and what the girlfriend should do is find one that not like that. He's too tired to have sex but he will ask for a bj ?? Good lord. How rude. I would have bit it off if he said that to me.

Answer 6

LAZYYYYYYY it should be an effort from both sides there's no way i would give him head if i get no satisfaction out of the deal!!! lol i guess i look at it as a give and take situation

Answer 7

Ya sounds lazy, but then again I work out all the time and have enough ab power to pound a chick through the floorboards.

Answer 8

this "man" is no man, he's a pompous, lazy, guy who wants things his way, brought to him on platter, served and fed, and if he could get you to help him move his jaw, so he doesn't have to, he'll do that to. get rid of him. if this is his way of acting regularly or occassionally, it's not worth it.

Answer 9

Its not lazy. My hubby used to do that exact thing. He's scared no matter what he says. He's afraid of doing something wrong.

Answer 10

he's lazy and he doesn't really care much about anything. if you're willing to give it to him without any effort he's not going to change.