Ladies, although we're not officially in a relationship as such, he's still going away to Copenhagen and to be honest, although I'm not in the right situation to tell him not to go, I feel that he might venture into the sex side of the city. We're in a long distant relationship, haven't seen him since Beginning of October, so he may stray a little. How would you feel???
2006-12-22 07:01:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him not to sleep with anyone until I go down to see him next month, he said "no problem" And that was that. I told him I'm waiting for him and not sleeping wit anyone
2006-12-22 07:07:31 · update #1
Wait are you or are you not dating this guy.....You are not officially in a relationship and have not seen him in 2 months???
Doesn't sound like a relationship to me...sounds more like Friends with benefits or a Hollarback situation....
I think only one of you 2 thinks your "dating" so you have no right to question or fret about what he does.....
2006-12-22 07:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by SALMON 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you 'not really in a relationship as such' then you are not exclusive with each other and you don't have a right to be jealous.
While I wouldn't want my SO to be screwing a prostitute for fear of a STD, the truth is that if you don't have a real relationship he's free to do whatever he wants. Don't invest so much emotional gold into a relationship that doesn't actually exist.
2006-12-22 15:06:08 · answer #2 · answered by Karen L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men who Love You
Listen to you
sounds like you think theres a relationship and he is foot loose and fancy free
if your officially not really together u must just get over it...
choose your next guy more wisely
hes obviously not ready to be swallowed by just you...
dump him
start a new...
2006-12-22 15:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitly call him and just say i really feel un comfortable with you going to a strip club when your dating me and just the fact that you could you could be having sex wit other girls makes me nervous!!!!
2006-12-22 15:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships dont work, give up now and stop wasting your time. Im sure if some guy came up to you and charmed you, you would go for that guy. Again, your wasting your time.
2006-12-22 15:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not officially together then he can date and do whatever he wants. Perhaps you should do the same
2006-12-22 15:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
His as in his friend, or his wife? If he's married, find someone is is willing to put you first. If you mean his friend, see if it's possible to go with them.
2006-12-22 15:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what the problem is here? Do you not trust him? That's what it sounds like?!
2006-12-22 15:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by jab92593 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel nothing and ask him to take me with him so we can both go to the strip club :)
2006-12-22 15:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by HI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will go and have sex and will deny it. Everyone is happy so forget about it.
2006-12-22 15:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by breastfed43 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋