There is a girl at school that I like. I've only known her for 5 months. We really don't know each other too well also. It's one of those situations where you say hi to each other in the hallway and smile at each other. What should I do?
2006-12-22 06:58:32 · 11 answers · asked by Confused1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this is coming from a SHY man. Anyhow, just keep saying hello and wait a few more weeks and simply ask "I was wondering if you'd like to go out for something to drink after school"? Or write it on a note. Merry Christmas. Keith
2006-12-22 07:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you? You should only date if you think there is a possibility you may marry this person. Now, just because you date them you don't have to marry them, but don't waste her time or your own by dating when you know you can't possibly marry! it will only lead to heartache! Trust me, I KNOW! If you want to get to know her more, tell her. If she likes you, she'll accept your invitation to lunch or dinner or something. Go somewhere you can talk (not a movie or a night club or somewhere where you'll be completely alone). Make it a warm and friendly environment. If she doesn't like you, you'll be able to tell. Go on with your life and make her regret saying no. Then, ask her again months later if she appears to have changed her mind. The main thing is, whenever you pass her in the hall, say hi and make it apperant you want to talk. Whenever she stops to talk, drop the invitation. Don't give her the impression you're only after her looks(even if you are). Don't flirt too much or appear too forward. Appear confident and like you don't NEED her at all, you simply WANT her.
2006-12-22 15:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to hang out with her some more and get to know her a little better. Then when yall know each other really well go for it and ask her out! I have the exact situation sept not with a girl and I've already asked him out and he hasnt said nothin yet! GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-12-22 15:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by ***~CRACKER~*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get to talk to her more like where u can answer what her fav.color is her ticklish part like still u really know each other and are comfortable, then you move to the second stage is letting her know u like her hints
2006-12-22 15:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy asked me if i knew what it was like to want something or someone you cant have we have a relationship a lot like you and this girl at that time i was kinda in a fight with my bf so i told him i would be interested in him anyways i wasnt really interested in him in that way but if she isnt interested in you that way then move on but if i didnt have a guy at that time i deffinately would have given him a try just talk to her about it (maybe in a joking way and see how she reacts) if she seems like she wouldnt mind going out ask her
2006-12-22 15:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool and ask her if she wants to hang out with you and some friends..If all goes well ask her to see a movie,just don't seem to pushy..Give her time if it is meant to be it will just be...Good luck..
2006-12-22 15:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by Mkey R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont stalk her and ask around about to her firend if she single if she like you or not and try to get involved in the things she likes u knoe and find out what kind of guy she likes just maybe its u
2006-12-22 15:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by lacheechee2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she wants to hang out or something and if she says yea then wait a couple days after u guys hung out then ask her if she will go out wit u k well GOOD LUCK
2006-12-22 15:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to the movies with her, like friends.
The rest just follow your gut.
2006-12-22 15:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by Danys M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's your age? It helps to know what type of answer would be appropriate,,;-)=
2006-12-22 15:01:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋