could it be the fact that I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 25? or does age not matter? We're about to have a kid in January, and I feel extrememly tied down. Not because of the kid, but because I have a car that I can't even drive, if I go anywhere or talk to anyone i have to have a reason why and everything i say while on the phone, i get interrogated about. I'm not a girl who cheats, I'm not a girl that plays guys, I'm not a girl who would say I'm going here, or I'm doing this, and not be doing it or be there. I lie...but who doesn't, it's never anything about where i am, who i'm with, or what i'm doing, or whatever else in that category...so why is it that my fiance can do whatever he wants and talk to whoever he wants and I not ask because i trust him and he ask me a million and one questions about anything i do? why is it that he calls me amillion times when he leaves the house to see what I'm doing, when there's nothing i can do? why doens't he just trust me and why cant we be happy??
2006-12-22 06:54:02 · 5 answers · asked by kaiyas_mom07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not inthe mood for negative answers, so keep them to yourself or I will come after you with an ax.
2006-12-22 06:54:40 · update #1
he also likes to look at p__ __ __...could that be a sign of cheating?
2006-12-22 07:16:22 · update #2
Well, it could be an age issue.. for the reason he may be trying to control you, I'm 21 and my daughters dad is 38 and we had that problem.. or it could be that he is guilty of cheating, and might take it out on you (guilty conscious) or it could be that he thinks you are pretty and you could have any guy you want, so therefore he is insecure, about being with you.. this is just my view point.. i hope nothing that i said was rude, but just a different way to look at things.. GOOD LUCK.. and do not stress.. its not good for the baby!
2006-12-22 07:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by jlil_shortie143 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are usually 2 reasons someone usually acts this way in my opinion. Either he is really insecure with himself and has been burned badly a few times or he is being unfaithful himself which seems to cause a person to worry that the other person is doing the same and must be watched closely. You'll know which one is true if you really think about it because I'm sure you know him well. My ex-girlfriend was that way to an extent and it was just because she had some insecurity within herself.
2006-12-22 15:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by locoj98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are suffering from depression or all of the pressure from becoming a mom is all seeming o be wrng but right at the same time and amybe he is not supporting you like the way you have imagind he would. I wih you good luck with your baby and i hope everything works out for the best
2006-12-22 15:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't chop me up with an ax scary lady. Maybe your boyfriend is keeping good eye on you for a reason! lol, jk.
I think it's really sweet that he calls you all day, but you need to have a life! He is a tiny bit overprotective, eh?
2006-12-22 15:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably a feeling you get in the later stages of pregnency. it will go away, i promise. feel better, ok?
2006-12-22 15:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋