Almost all my friends have a boyfriend, or have been asked out. I on the other hand, have been liked, told i have been liked, told i am hot, pretty, & even beutiful. Yet they don't ask me out, not on one date!!!! So what do I do? Im am kinda shy in sertian situations. Are the guyes just scared that I will say no? -jessie89
2006-12-22 06:52:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maby the boys are just afraid to ask you out or maby think you are taken or even maby they willl think that you will say no just dont worry and the right person will come along since your hot, just forget about it and enjoy life
2006-12-22 07:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit by yourself and thank god you don't have a boyfriend. If you did, you:
1. wouldn't have time to increase your intelligence
2. wouldn't have the time to spend with your family
3. wouldn't have the opportunity to realize what a great person you are and that you don't need a b/f to validate that
4. wouldn't have the chance to build your personality and your individuality
5. would never overcome your shyness
6. would be dependent on another person for emotional support
7. would never realize your friends are a bunch of hopeless saps
And finally, be thankful you're single because if you had a b/f you...
8. wouldn't be available when that cute guy finally asks you out
2006-12-22 07:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jeremy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I hate it. But instead of hatting it you could be out there flirting with all of the boys. I mean I would love to be tooken I also like to flirt with all of the guys in the world. Also guys these days don't have the balls to ask us out. So just drop some hints to the guys that you like. Good luck!
2006-12-22 07:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by volleyballis4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is cliche of me to say, but don't worry. Things happen for certain people and certain paces for a reason. Maybe you should make yourself more available, be more flirtatious without coming of slutty. Compliment the men you are around..perhaps you are giving off an intimidating vibe and your "approachability factor" is null.
2006-12-22 06:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by bakergrl5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that, the right boy just hasnt come along yet if he does he will ask you out trust me i know what im talking about, just hang in there, and dont worry about your mates its just peer presure, there is nothing wrong with not having a boy friend.
2006-12-22 06:57:24 · answer #5 · answered by LYDZII3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally feel ya! Baby they either think u are out of their league or that u are taken... ;) In this situation u are the one who has to ask them out...Use ur power! ;)
2006-12-22 06:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by Sweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't have gf.
and when i will choose my gf,i will take girl like you.because i love the shy girl.
i advice you:don't change your self and any one wish to have such girl like you.
and iam one of them.
2006-12-22 07:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by prince_code_name47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just takes time! maybe guys are nervous around you!
besides you want THE boyfriend not A boyfriend!!
2006-12-22 06:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u play hard to get?
that the key, play the role
guys like wat they can't have
flaunt ur stuff girl!!
Just don't make it to obvious!!
2006-12-22 06:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Sage Elizabethhh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
r u ugly??? no one likes ugly people!!!!!!!!!!!!!
r u fat???? no one likes fat people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-22 06:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by blondie_851851 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋