I live right accross from this guy I'm dating. A few times his car was gone alllll night. Well one time recently when his car was gone all night, I went and drove by his mothers and his car was in front of her house. He didn't know I did this and I surely won't ever tell him that I did. The first time his car was gone all night I flipped out and yelled at him (assuming that he was at another woman's house). Now he doesn't like to tell me anything, Was I totally wrong in assuming he was at another woman's house?
2006-12-22 06:51:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely weird since you do not mention you are INVOLVED with him in a relationship. He will eventually avoid you altogether.
2006-12-22 06:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You werent wrong but at the same time you shouldnt have jumped on him without talking first. Talk to him about the situation at hand, tell him that you felt insecure, and that you were wrong to quickly accuse him. Over time im sure he will start telling u things again
2006-12-22 06:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have accused him of bein with another woman! You dont need acuse somebody of doin somethin until you know its true. He mightve just been payin his mother a visit. Good luck and try to get his trust back.
2006-12-22 06:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by ***~CRACKER~*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sum people can be ova protective. nd well boys have been stereo typed as doing dat. mayb u just need 2 give him more slack, just plainly ask him wot hes been doin. if hes a decent bf he wudt do anefing lik dat 2 u. nd no ur not a stalker ,peops can just over react at times dats normal 2 b worried ,shows u care
2006-12-22 06:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no id do the same but thats only coz the way ive been treated by guys in the past just dont let it get to ur too much
2006-12-22 06:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have reason to suspect he is cheating, you need to trust your guy. If you cannot, you need to move on and find a guy you feel you can trust. What you did was wrong.
2006-12-22 06:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wont call u a stalker bcuz u find this in relationships when u really care about some one anyway it not what u say but how u say it so that note of this
2006-12-22 07:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, your not the first to think this, or the last. i would be checking out my mans house every other minute, if he lived across the road!
2006-12-22 06:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just think that you overreacted about it. Lighten up a little and trust that he's being faithful to u.
2006-12-22 06:57:36 · answer #9 · answered by scooter pebbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a stalker, but it sounds like you need to re-evaluate your relationship with this man!
2006-12-22 06:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by ball_courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋