Please help. My ex-girlfriend constantly calls me at odd hours and always tries to talk to me on messenger. I try to ignore her a little bit. She acts as if we are still dating. I told her that i like other people and she tells me the exact same thing. She said she has alot of parties to attend when i KNOW that she is making it up just to make me think that she's moved on. What should i do or tell her to get her off me????? i mean she's interrupting my life when things are going much better for me!
2006-12-22 06:48:23 · 12 answers · asked by Sgt. Malarky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with her. And change your number if you can.
2006-12-22 06:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy just talk to her, and tell her you are not interested in her anymore you dont want a relationship.. Don't be mean she is hurting and she is just trying to hold on to any part of you that she can. If talking to her doesnt work then ignore her completely and move on, dont send mixed signals that means dont answer the phone dont respond messages. Be stern in your tactic and don't talk to her one day and joke and play and then the next day not talk to her at all. You have to be consistant.
2006-12-22 14:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to make it seem like she's moving on, help her. Tell her the truth about how you feel or don't feel about her, go on with your life, and let the relationship really be over. If there's nothing there to fight for, the fight should stop eventually. It's important for guys to not string along women and give them false hope of you coming back into their lives.
2006-12-22 15:08:52 · answer #3 · answered by Teoshe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be respectful about it and to the point. Set aside 15 mins, call her and tell her from start to finish, without any ambiguity or game playing, that you are no longer interested in her. She should at least respect you for taking the direct approach.
2006-12-22 14:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by days_o_work 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't have feelings for her any longer and if she still won't leave you alone, ignore her on messenger, ignore her phone calls, ignore her voicemails. If you have to, change phone numbers but hopefully you won't have to go that far.
good luck to you
2006-12-22 14:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by amarilysusa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
completely cut her off. if you dont have to see her in person, then you are even in a better position. she still likes you and not giving her the time of day is hard to do, but you must do it. she needs to uderstand that you are going on with your life, and she might be holding on by a thread, but you have the clippers in your hand, so cut that dangling string and skys the limit for you. whatever the reason for the breakup, well it happened, and its time for her to go on.
2006-12-22 14:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to speak to her and to tell her honestly that as much as you care for her...you are not in love with her anymore and that you have moved on...and that she deserves someone who would love her more than anyone else in the world....
It is tough...but you have to be honest....
Good Luck...
2006-12-22 14:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Need Help! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just be honest with her and tell her that it is over.And that she should move on with her life without you.Do not
accept phone calls or e-mails from her.
2006-12-22 15:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by preciousm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Dont pretend that you have feelings
simply tell her to leave you alone and that you are no longer interested in her.
2006-12-22 14:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by xcelticsbabee34x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i recon it ain't hit her yet that the two of you ain't together any more, so just ignore her don't pick up her calls and block her from your messenger, it will soon hit home for her.
2006-12-22 14:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by LYDZII3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋