If one broke up with her boyfriend add she gets another guy she connect most with her ex-boyfriend than her current boyfriend.Why?
2006-12-22 06:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by JULS NAM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pretty simple. FEAR of the unknown. Anyone, not just high school girls, has learned what to expect and, generally, how to handle a given situation with someone that they have known for a while.
In a NEW relationship, there are many mental question marks. There are a LOT of "what if's".
We can be more comfortable with the KNOWN, and what the reactions will be to situations, than with the UNKNOWN. For example: The thought, "Maybe he/she won't like me anymore if I do/say this". The list goes on.
Of course, the only way to get to really know a NEW friend is to spend time with them and try to be relaxed and be yourself. Don't just say or do what they want so they will like you, that is really lying to yourself. You would only hurt yourself in the long-run.
I know, it's really easy for me to write this, but it is very hard to do. Good Luck....
2006-12-22 06:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by intrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when they are having bad times, they're more fresh in her mind. When she thinks about her ex, she only remembers the good times.
2006-12-22 06:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by THE STUDLIEST 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b/c she probably new him longer or she might miss but dont want her current bf to find out but thats how some girls are but im not like that lol!
2006-12-22 06:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she already knows her ex and probably doesn't know her current boyfriend as well. it'll take some time. trust me
2006-12-22 06:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the video on youtube or myspace and you will know.
2006-12-22 06:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Chazz Drizzler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just remembering her more innocent days
2006-12-22 06:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋