A guy that I really like and I've been dating stays over with me all the time and though we've come close to doing the deed, we haven't only because I don't feel like it should be so soon. I really like him and it's not that he doesn't hit the right buttons, it's just that I think it might be a little soon. Do you think he gets frustrated when I slow things down a bit, or does he not care becaseu he likes being with me? I know this is a pretty stupid question, but I wanted to know from a guy's point of view.
2006-12-22 06:42:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He gets frustrated but if he is a decent guy he will wait until you are ready.
2006-12-22 07:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have told him exactly how you feel and why you feel that way, and he is still with you and being patient, then he is waiting for you to be ready. I am sure he gets frustrated, but that is part of dating when you are looking for love and not just a hook up. You are right to take your time. Once you have sex, the relationship will change. Take all the time you need and make sure the time is right and that HE is the right one.
2006-12-22 14:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he gets frustrated, and it could backfire on you also. You need to set down and talk to him about this and your feelings, I do not know how old you are, but at my age, I would look at this as being rejected. I have done exactly what you are describing, and did not press it with the girl, and I later on regretted it. Now if you feel like you are too younge, that is a good thing, because, having sex before marriage could very well cause you problems in the future anyway. Once you have several lovers, it is sometimes hard to settle down to just one in marriage. You see it is like learning to like different types of food. You lean to like Mexican, Italian, Oriental, and Southern Style, then you are restricted to one type in marriage. Good luck, and watch you diet darling!! G
2006-12-22 14:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by hog rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves u he will definetly wait for u with patience for a lifetime. Test him for some more time. Physical love is natural in an affair but that is not the most important thing.
2006-12-22 14:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by anneshan04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's frustrated with you, but more with the thought of not getting any. If he truly cares for you then he will being very willing to take it a little slower.
2006-12-22 14:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have gotten a guys input. It's about his in-put where the question lies. Is he frustrated? absolutly. I am sure he enjoys your company and the time spent with you; and I am equally sure if he isn't allowed his in-put soon you won't have to worry about him or this much longer.
2006-12-22 14:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is frustrated, but of course he won't tell you at first...then that'll just ruin ALL chances of "hitting it".
Guys like to "test drive" their cars first. THEN think about buying it.
End of story.
2006-12-22 14:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by Poop Chute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his only thought is to get some, yes he's frustrated. then again if you did that to me a good amount of time i'll just cut my losses and go after another girl. just don't go past kissing then you'll probably get away with it.
2006-12-22 15:00:20 · answer #8 · answered by the_blue_eyed_papi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's frustrated. He's a guy...don't let things get so heated up, that's being a d**k tease and it's cruel.
2006-12-22 14:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he does get frustrated if he is thinking with his (other head) the one downstairs. tell him that your waiting until marriage. or just do other stuff.
2006-12-22 14:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by will987456 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋