I'm tired of being alone. This is my first Holiday without anyone. My son's father and I split last year. What can I do to meet a nice guy?? I'm running out of ideas.
2006-12-22 06:42:01 · 25 answers · asked by sweetchick21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What I think you should do wake you one morning and make sure you look your best in the evening take you son the you mom's or any relative you come trust, then go to good hag out for guys of your age or age preference.please be careful with the men you talk to if one looks sensible then ask him what he does for a living if he love kids if he doesn't then stop there because if you continue with him he will not treat you son the best way true me .If he like kids he will repeatedly talk about kids. Then ask him about his marital status he has to single. Let's first work with this informtion for this time.
2006-12-22 07:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by JULS NAM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find a guy is to not look. Honestly it is. That's how I found my boyfriend. We haven't been together long, but he is a wonderful guy. Just let life go. You don't have to have a guy for the holidays either. Trust me. This is my first time having a boyfriend at Christmas. I know I may be younger too, but don't look. Take the time looking to spend with your son. Kids grow up fast. Hope this helps you.
2006-12-22 14:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by princessdez122008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Classic question...asked by all sexes. Start with yourself. Be true to yourself, honor yourself, accept yourself as you are without judgment. Learn to love yourself and then set an intention to find a partner who meets your expectations. Visualize what you are looking for in a partner and every morning when you get up and every evening when you go to bed remind the Universe what it is you are looking for and ask for help. Then, of course, ask your friends, the parents of your son's friends, join groups that have similar interests (church, hobby, on line chat rooms, etc). On line meeting seems to be pretty successful and not any more risky than picking up someone in a bar. Good luck.
2006-12-22 14:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail me through here and let's chat. I know what you mean about being alone around the holidays. It sucks. I don't enjoy being alone period, let alone around the holidays. I'm like you, just trying to find a decent woman to share my life with. I'm just a normal guy looking for happiness. So if you want to find a nice guy, give me a chance.
2006-12-22 14:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gimme a call! lol - no seriously if you see a nice looking guy somewhere just go say hi and see what happens. What's the worst that could happen?
Bars/clubs are fun and are good for one-nighters and such but not a good place to meet anyone for long term. Dating sites don't seem so good either.
2006-12-22 15:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by locoj98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about where a decent guy would hang out, or what a decent guy would do on his spare time. Rule out the bars, nightclubs, etc. right off the bat. Think religion and philanthropy. Don't do things that are dominated by one type of gender: i.e. pool halls or book clubs. Look for balance. Good luck!
2006-12-22 14:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone, you have your son and he needs you more than any man. When the right guy comes along, he will find you. Enjoy time with your son and for the time being, let him be the man in your life.
2006-12-22 14:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by pysmith429 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is tough because only time Will tell if someone is nice if you have friends have them maybe introduce you to people they think are nice people who are interesting people who are gentle their reputations will precede then then be just a bit bolder that usual and chat them up some when yo meet them like I said it is hard and the holidays make it even harder to be alone.
2006-12-22 14:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by doc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay its not easy to find desent with out looking trying. Im having the same problom with the ladys . some what more then i have but i can and will give all i can to keep and make her happy
im going to be sorta alone also my be we can talk
2006-12-22 15:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit looking and get to know yourself, once you figure out who you are everything will fall into place! Besides being single can be fun, just don't rush to get into a relationship just to be in a relationship, have fun and love you first.
2006-12-22 14:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by ajax138 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋