I always hear about flexible girls being preferred. I'm not flexiable and when i get on top on my boyfriend i just kind of bounce(up and down).i thought he liked it.So i asked my B/friend, if he prefered a girl who has a flexiable waist and asked him to be honest.He said that,he once dated an african girl who had a flexible waist and rode him better than i do,and that she was able to move her hips in a circular motion even when he was on top of her.He said it was great sex.She went back to africa.I asked him to guide me but i have a kind of sift waist. SO I APPROACHED ONE AFRICAN GIRL and she took me to another african woman who actually teaches american women how to please a man in bed.It was unbelieve the number of women that attend her class. I LOVE MY MAN but do you think i should take these classes. GUYS would you want your g/Friend to take classes on how to move her hips better in bed? Ladies would you go to such a class for your man?
2006-12-22 06:09:26 · 18 answers · asked by good_but_naughty_gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your man is an asshole for saying that anyone was better than you at anything 'in the sack'. I believe whole-heartedly in honesty in a relationship, but there are some exceptions. Telling you this serves no real purpose other than to make you feel less special. And he could have got the same point across without mentioning any other woman.
I wouldn't spend time & money on a class. I'd find someone that appreciated the bounce :)
2006-12-22 06:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Just Some Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm an african girl, you can try the classes i guess. The thing is we taught this, the first time we start our periods. I was taught when i was 15 years ( i know this will seem wrong in america because of the age but it's culture for some africans, like pple in my country). I have had some american girlfriends ask me to teach them but it's hard to teach a grown woman. (I was actually put in the house for 3 months and taught the art of making love and the art of F**king a man depending on the mood. I was taught how to move my hips in many positions). i did not like it at the time because i was a virgin and young but i now appreciate it.
This done again when a woman is about to get married.one weekend is chosen. only married women are allowed to attend, to actually teach "the new wife to be" what they have learned about men in bed. they talk about their different experinces. They then take sex toys and show the woman how to move when a man is in you in any position. I know it sounds bad but it's not as bad. My friends and I once pretended to be married when one of our girlfriend was getting married and i learned more from there than when i was put in the house for 3 months at 15. I know this is strange for americans but it's our culture that we still practice here in america. I'm actually for the practice.
So if you are up to it, then go for it,,RMEMEBER to be open minded and do not be shy, You might learn some of our bed room tricks.
I also know an african woman that has a huge class teaching this and she has over 200 women a week. Most of the africans are against this african woman teaching our culture to american women. they say it's oyr secret but i think it's ok.
2006-12-22 15:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, take the classes! If you love your man, you'll do anything (almost) to make him happy right? I appreciate it when my man does and tries new things for me. It'll be tough but not everyone is born with all abilities! Also, try Tahitian dancing! I used to do that and I strengthened my already great hip and waist movement! ;)
2006-12-22 14:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tulip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, classes... if you are comfortable with the set up go for it! Don't do it just for your boyfriend... but you! You deserve to be a confident sexy woman in bed, that maybe your whole problem now! I bet you will feel empowered and ready to show your man what was built up inside you all along!
2006-12-22 14:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We love girls that ride beautifully! However , if the guy is still with you even if you're stiff, he likes you, and that should count for something. By the way, I'm African . Girls are taught the art of f--k while they are still kids, so , they are basically professionals
2006-12-22 14:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by The Isht! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to see girls in these classes, its not like your cheating on him your just going there to make things better for the both of you. these classes are just for the men go there and ask for things that you can do taht help you both reach the good stuff. im sure the instructor with know a few tricks and i bet your man with love it but if your still not sure ask your man and see what he thinks
i hope this helps :)
2006-12-22 14:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by quadstack72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do I sign up! I don't think I'm bad but I am always willing to learn something new. Sign up and dont' tell him just surprise him with all your new tricks.
Are any of these classes in Michigan.
2006-12-22 14:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by rdwngfever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'd be great if she had a flexible waist or wanted to learn to ride for both our sakes, but I'm not going to toss her out if she can't or isn't inclined to learn how (but I wish she was).
2006-12-22 14:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI
iam a guy and this thing is the latest thing i think about.because love is not to have bed with your gf.there is more bettwen them.
there is love and the meaning of love is to have romantic.someone can keep your secrets,someone can be trust.
thats the love.and then we can have bed.
if he loves you so be yours,donot change anything or go to any one.
2006-12-22 14:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by prince_code_name47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your man should be taking classes. You sound like a woman who has not yet been shown the true pleasure of orgasm. He should be ashamed of himself.
2006-12-22 14:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋