I love performing oral sex on my boyfriend. And before him, many of my boyfriends never had anything bad to say about me and my oral skills. My current boyfriend says the same, that I am super at what I do when I perform. However, I am the kind of person that just wants to make sure I am doing the best of my abilities to make it better than the last. So I was curious to find out from you guys what kind of things would you suggest to make it an even better one? (we do have sex so if it involves performing the act during or after sex, I'm cool with it)
2006-12-22 05:55:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and I have very similar attitudes.
A thought occured to me, was that in order to learn, who was better to watch than someone who also possessed the genitalia I would be occupying myself with! Therefore I watched a lot of lesbian porn. Unfortunately, as a strategy, that also has it's problems.
As a male dominated industry, the female actors actually ply their trade in a way that they think we the male will find most exciting, not the most pleasing for their female partner...
What I did learn, though, is that they did seem to spend more time on the clitoris, than they did on either the labia or the vaginal opening.
What helped me the most was a woman who actually masturbated for me and sort of explained what was going on as she did it, pointing out where things felt good, how different techniques affected "things."
(Hint... Hint...)
But aside of technique, love making works on different levels.
By you showing how much you are into pleasing your partner, and displaying your increasing level of excitement, will also raise your partner's excitement level.
Have you ever sort of "lost yourself" in a sort of frenzy? Rapidly increasing your pace? Making much more noise? (If you catch my drift...) And if you are prone on the carpet or on the bed, frantically reaching down to your own clit, or humping the bed or carpet while you do your thing?
Talking to him also works...
And I don't mean who he thinks will win the World Series next year!
Stop for a moment and let him see you with a mouth full of his...
then say, "God I love your...." or, "Your ..... is beautiful, I love....."
My point here is that love making is more than just technique. Hopefully you are geunine, but let him know that you LOVE doing what you are doing, and make him feel that there is nothing that you would rather do than what you are doing right then and there!
2006-12-22 13:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by LongSnapper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I can't imagine that ANY sane guy would tell a girl that performs oral on him on a regular basis that she isn't doing a good job. I bet what you are doing is perfect, but if you do it when he doesn't expect it, like in a semi-public place it would be hot as h e l l for him. The important thing is the tongue action on the bottom side of the shaft and lots of it. This is the most sensitive area. Make sure there is at least SOME "vacuum". Also, go down and clean him off good after sex.
D A M N ! I can't wait to get home to the wife now!
2006-12-22 06:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by PDH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence, the first thing I notice about a girl is confidence in herself. If she acts shy or not interested I'm less motivated to go and talk to her. Some guys are different but looks don't mean the world to me. If I can hold a conversation with a woman then there is always a chance for a connection.
2016-05-23 16:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sad that you have this one quality. Tell me, do you think any of these guys take you seriously?
If you want a serious relationship you'll have to not do this prior to marriage. While alot of answers will come telling you new exciting things to do . . none of these people care about you. I would probably delete this question while you still can.
I feel sorry for you and hope you realize you don't need sex to get a boy to hang with you. You are a beautiful person and worthy to be loved.
2006-12-22 06:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex on a man is easier the it is on woman. We appreciate the effort more then anything else
2006-12-22 06:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by crazedvole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring him a beer first or pour him a drink and then do a little sexy dance for him like a stripper would. Get him all worked up and then deliver it until he's completely satisfied.
Don't tease too much though-do it for HIS pleasure.
2006-12-22 06:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sounds like a great girlfriend and want to please your guy in that special way. Try this, take Altoids to Mentos and have that in your mouth the next time. He will love it!
2006-12-22 06:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix him a sandwich after you finish him off.
2006-12-22 05:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Goodkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jetty, some things you just can't improve!
2006-12-22 06:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you can deep-throat a c**k and swallow the c*m any guy will be happy.
2006-12-22 05:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by SPORTS GUY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋