I was talking to a girl for the past year after < beingingermanyfor > 12/22 10:11:33
the past year, and we talked for several months, online and on the phone. I got home, and then about 2-3 weeks after I got home, I called her, I apologized for being too busy to call her until then, and she told me that she didn't want to meet up with me, because I was too playerish based on the pictures and comments and stuff on myspace, and since I am going to visit a female friend of mine several states away that is very flirty... and that I obviously was not that interested in her, or I would have called sooner, and I should go back to whatever it was that was keeping me so busy, and leave her alone. wtf, she's 25???
2006-12-22 05:20:55 · 8 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You played your cards. You prioritized her pretty far down the list, you waited until you had been home for 2-3 weeks before you contacted her, you continue to flirt. She doesn't want to continue to explore a relationship with someone who treats her as a convenience. What's not to understand?
BTW, I'm not saying what you did was bad, you just broadcasted, loud and clear, that your relationship with her isn't important. That's OK, but she doesn't have to go along with it.
2006-12-22 05:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Caper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2-3 weeks is too long to wait honey, she's right to blow you off....and you are probably a player because now you're even more interested in her! LOL
2006-12-22 13:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all I take it your a lesbian so that as is is very outgoing so im proud of you but y are you worried about some girl on the net move on
2006-12-22 13:24:20 · answer #3 · answered by turtle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just hurt that you did not call. Sometimes we women can behave childish when we are hurting. Just call her again. SHE ACTUALLY WANTS YOU,so don't give up. She wants you to give her the attention..I BET YOU, SHE IS THINKING ABOUT YOU.
2006-12-22 13:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by good_but_naughty_gal 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, you got busted trying to mack. It happens!
2006-12-22 13:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on meet up wit me and my gf....we can have a 3 sum!!
2006-12-22 13:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by London Pearl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She has issues just move on.
2006-12-22 13:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i certainly agree with her,i'm sure she knows what she wants
2006-12-22 13:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by kelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋