I met this girl back in June. She had a BF. (now..dec 19th 06' has been with him a year) she stated he cheated when they first started but she trusts him now and said he hasnt done it since. Anyway. We connected in a flash..the same interests weird attitudes, and warm hearts. We started seeing eachother alot..led to kissing dinners and eventually intimacy. all this time he was away in costa rica she was here. she said when she goes back to school with him that she has to see her feelings. We ended up falling in love and told eachother.She told me in september that the right thing to do is stay with him and that it's the right thing for her at this ti from sept till now we still talk alot and when she comes home we meet up and hang out. she still feels the same and so do i and we've kissed and and still very close. SHe decided if we're to remain close to not act on our impulses. Cuz we mean alot to eachother. We made a promise if anything happens one day. we'll be together.
2006-12-22 04:57:27 · 11 answers · asked by V P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What??? Why is she saying she loves you but needs to remain with her boyfriend because that is the right thing?? It makes no sense. What is she telling him? Does she just want to keep her options open? Find someone who can be true to you.. time is short.. don't waste it on someone playing her options. She had an affair with you.. you get together for real and she'll probably find someone else to have on the side.. Run... as fast as you can ... Not worth your time!
2006-12-22 05:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by weareonvacation 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she can't be faithful to him and she claim that she loves him alot then how ccould she be faithful to you and love you right if her heart is still with him leave her alone she is basically using yoy because if she love you and care about how you feel then she would of ended this before it started. think about what im saying how could she love him if shes with you and him how do you know once you get her she won't do the same to you move on and find you your own girl.
2006-12-22 13:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Mz.Tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her
and take her out to a restaurant and sit and talk to her
and win her over to your side before the meal is done, ( sit in the back corner if you can, and sit real close to her)
and when you walk out the door she should be all yours if you do it correctly
go for it
do not take no for an answer
good luck
smile
2006-12-22 16:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you're her sex buddy while her man is away. She is a cheater just like him...once a cheater always a cheater. If you hook up with her she will cheat on you with someone else, but then again, you too are a cheater! So, wait for her!!!
2006-12-22 13:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this dude, but she loves him, and THAT'S the reason, not cuz its the right thing. She's using you while he's away. Dump her.
2006-12-22 13:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
homie u a REBOUND!
u hella dumb u gonn let a H0E play u like that?
is the P*SSY that good to not let go
u GOT PLAYED!
she got more game than u do
2006-12-22 13:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should realize you are dating a cheating slut and get out while you can!
Today she is cheating on him with you.
Tomorrow she will be cheating on you with someone else.
2006-12-22 13:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings for each other are strong enough they will last. Are you sure she isn't just keeping you around for a backup boyfriend?
2006-12-22 13:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, i think you should tell her about what you think. and if you both really love/like each other then you should be together.
2006-12-22 13:10:22 · answer #9 · answered by manatee_love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww she really seems like she loves you.. go for it
2006-12-22 13:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by dfhottie09 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋