help me understand this why would she cry. Is there still hope if i just give space?

Question

After 2 mounths of going back and forth w my ex we keep on talking to each other. I still love her. She says she doent want to think about us like that anymore and try and work things out. Last night i called her and i we kept talking till i sliped i was planig on proposing to her in june she was shocked. The whole thing ended up with both of us crying. Why would she cry she is the one that dumped me and i am the one pursuing this. All i want from her to think about all of this. I am stuck now cause why would she cry.

The relationship lasted 4 yrs and we both always talked about kids and marrige. The break up came from no where only that she felt no romantic connection. I always gave her my life i gave up parts of my life to be with her. I always told her how i felt and now this. Niether of us can stop calling one another. my only question is why would she cry over, if this is what she wants?

there is now one ealse i know that for a fact and i sent her an email telling her i am not making this better so i am going to try and leave her be.

Answer 1

Her cries is the last and most powerful weapon, be careful!!
^_^

Answer 2

I am sorry to tell you this, but she cried because she doesn't want to hurt you.
She might not be IN love wit you anymore but she still does love you (you shared a long time with each other) There is a big difference. She started to cry because she doesn't want you to get your hopes up and hold onto something that isn't there anymore. As for the talking all the time thing, that is simply because she is trying to slowly ween you out of her system. If the situation is that you have talked but not really seen each other then that is exactly what she is doing. She cannot cut off all contact but is trying to do it slowly for the both of you. She thinks that she is helping but this is just keeping you hholding out hope for nothing.
This most likely wasn't the answer you were hoping for but htis is my female point of view.
You will get over it in time!!!!
Good luck to you.

Answer 3

I dont know why she would cry? Something that u should maybe ask her. I honestly dont think u "slipped" and told her that u were going to propose to her. I think u did that to see what kind of reaction u would get from her. I dont think u got the reaction that u were looking for and now u want to know what to make out of the reaction u did get. Only thing to do is as u wrote, give her space and time to figure out what she wants in life. Do u know the saying "if u love something set it free if it comes back its urs if it doesnt it never was" Time to step back and see what life brings.. Good luck!

Answer 4

Well she obviously still has feelings for you or atleast she was touchd by how she would've been engaged hadnt she broken up with you. I say give her some time, maybe she regrets breaking up with you. If it's meant to be everything will go right. Good luck ♥

Answer 5

She found someone else.