I posted on here around a week ago about liking my brothers best friend. After the answer i got given i decided to stay away and it would be the end of it. The only problem is yesterday we split up for xmas holidays and as my dad was away my brother decided to throw a party with a few friends. My brother's best friend came and his girlfriend didn't.We spent most of the night chatting, having a laugh as usual but he stayed over and when my brother went to bed we stayed up watching tv and that. When i got up to go to bed he kissed me, and we carried on for about 30mins but nothing else happened just kissing. It felt good but the thought was in the back of my mind about his girlfriend but he said it didn't matter things were over between him and her. But this morning i signed in on MSN and his gf had added me. I thought she'd found out, but turns out she just wanted to get to know me and she seems really cool. So now that leaves me feeling guilty =(. I like him but i like her now =(
2006-12-22 04:06:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because he has a girlfriend does not mean that you can't be attracted to him. NOW that being said...if you "see" him while he is still with his girlfriend that makes you a weasel!
Guys have been known to say just about anything...so make sure you trust this guy. If you really like him both of you need to sit down and talk about it. Before this goes any further just make sure his SO is out of the picture.
As for your guilt....that just shows your a nice person with a good heart:) I would NOT tell the girlfriend anything.
Just make sure you don't string this along-if you do, then you become the "other woman" ....never a good place to be...
2006-12-22 04:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by starrzfan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to get out of the relationships that you are in at the moment. Cheating is not right. Neither of you are happy or you wouldn't have been making out with each other, so you obviously aren't satisfied in your relationships. Be honest with yourself and your boyfriend and move on. There is definitely some chemistry between you and the other guy, but if it doesn't go beyond that, it won't last. You don't want to be the girlfriend who gets cheated on and you definitley don't want to be the "other" woman. Be true to yourself and others.
2006-12-22 04:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Gretta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you like this girl as a new friend... would you ever, even consider, steeling your friends boyfriend outside of this threesom you've got going?? I would think not, most girls wouldn't...
so, I would suggest telling this guy that what happened was a big mistake, and that you will not get into any kind of relationship with him at all... anything beyond casual friends, and you will get in between him, and your brother... happened to my sister and who was my best friend at the time, they started dating, and now i don't talk to him anymore after they broke up... alll around this looks like a bad situation.
2006-12-22 04:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. the best thing is to tell him what the girlfriend has done and see what happens, if he says they have split up for good, its possible they have and maybe you are in with a chance, the thing is, its probably best to wait a while before announcing anything to anyone!
good luck!
2006-12-22 04:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a slut!
if i was you, i'd totally stay away from both of them!
because you do realize, eventually someone will find out, and you could ruin the relationship between your brother and him.
2006-12-22 04:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eek!
Sounds like he's a jerk. If he'll cheat on her, by playing with you---you don't want him. Cause if you do get him, he'll cheat on you by playin with someone else.
2006-12-22 04:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it was an error on your part dont tell until you think its and appropriate timee
2006-12-22 04:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by Aubrey F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never never tell her what happened, and never never trust him. it was fun for 30 minutes, forget about it and move on.
2006-12-22 04:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋