i want to make this first date work out.
can anyone suggest some points how to start a conversation,and to be able for u to manipulate that conversation what do u tthink are things u should talk about.
2006-12-22 03:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find some topics that you both have an interest in and discuss them.
2006-12-22 03:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you manipulate a conversation? Just make a little small talk at first and then when you see an opening ask about work, what they do on the weekends, their family, where their family lives, places they've traveled, etc. You'll finally settle on a topic you both can be engaged in and hopefully share a few laughs and "click". Just try to relax and he yourself. Try and be positive. Complaining about how crappy your day was doesn't leave a good first impression.
2006-12-22 11:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fun stuff. Stay away from from work or politics.
Think fun movies, dancing, jokes. Even chat about dating. Try to keep the intensity down, but stimulating.
2006-12-22 12:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask questions about the other perosn and listen, its called mimicing... what you do is say the last phrase in the sentance the person just said and ask them to go on, its funny most of the time you dont even have to talk or say anything about yourself, and if they are comfortable they will tell you thinks about themselves that no one knows, so be careful
2006-12-22 11:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go somewhere quiet and nice
stay for a week at least
just see whatever topics come up
if there is no conversation the first day its really ok
2006-12-22 11:55:37 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to relax. If you put too much pressure on yourself it will just go badly.
You can't force chemistry. Just do the normal getting to know you chit chat stuff and take it from there.
2006-12-22 11:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by r s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him open ended questions about himself. People normally like taking about themselves and you will get to know him better at the same time.
2006-12-22 11:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by boredperv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At first praise him but not fatter. Every body likes praise. You agree with him about his opinion. Find out common interest and discuss about these.
2006-12-22 12:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by akandaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him whether he is interested in seeing ur girl friends, haha
Ask him how often he plays Xbox
That should last for couple of hours
2006-12-22 11:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont try to manipulate the conversation --- just talk find out about each other you cant force a date to work
2006-12-22 11:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋