yesterday i hurt my bf to fellow my ex bf,when he was crying i couldn't do anything about it bec's i loved my ex bf more than him and i feel i have done something wrong and confuse too bec's the boy loves me so much he is like a brother to me but i don't loves him as i love my ex bf.Should anyboby advice me what i should?
2006-12-22 03:50:52 · 14 answers · asked by SHATY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you loved the ex, why is he the ex? Why did you break with him, or he break with you. Your b/f now was crying. You should have just talked to him, and not walked off with the ex. Look, if you dont like this boy, then break up with him. I mean you hurt him once, and it makes no sence to me to keep hurting him day after day. Just get it over with. I think it is the best thing if you dont love him. All guys get over breakups. Look, if you like the ex, then get with the ex, and stop hurting thisboy now. At least he doesnt break wiht you. That would be embarassing on your part. Expecially if you dont like him. Just break up with this guy. K?
2006-12-22 03:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be clear of whom you love the most. Do you really love ur current bf or you just admire and adore him? Love is something more complicated so you have to be clear of that. Since u said u loved ur ex more, then you should know where your heart points. You cannot split your heart for two as all three of you will be hurt. Make a choice and suffer for a short while as you still can be friends with ur current bf, or else you will hv to suffer for a longer period which do no good to anyone. But before that, please reflect why at the first place you have an ex while you still love him. Wish u luck.
2006-12-22 04:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love someone else more than your bf, he should NOT BE your bf.
You will hurt him by the very fact that you string him along this way.
It is not true that you could not do anything about it.
We all have choices to make. Probably you made the right one but it WAS by choice
Nobody pulled the strings.....and make sure you do not let anyone do that.
2006-12-22 04:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any chance of you and your ex getting back together? If not, get over him. Let this guy have a chance or you'll never be happy.
Ex's are Ex's for a reason.
P.s. Learn to type in English, it's a beautiful language that shouldn't be spoilt.
2006-12-22 05:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very ambiguos word. if i were you, i will follow this rules
1. what do u want in the relationship?.. because most times its good for a man to love the lady more than vice versa.
2.who do you want to be happy. you neighbour or yourself.
3.If you think your ex-boyfriend loves you maybe equally, i would recommend you go for your ex. but if not..........then its the other way.
2006-12-22 04:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by BeeStingoRay.<':)))>X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 10:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you probally shouldnt have gone out with him knowing that you didnt love him and that you where still in love with your exbf. the only thing you can do now is tell him how sorry you are that you hurt him and that you wish him all the luck and happiness for the future and then move on and give him time to heal. Good luck.....
2006-12-22 03:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have made the right decision.
There's no brotherly feelings where love is concerned.
You would make him miserable by staying with him when your heart is obviously elsewhere, and you wouldn't be able to return his feelings.
It would hurt and he would eventually resent you for that.
You did the right thing.
KC.
2006-12-22 04:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy love you a lot and you are treating him like your brother
and you are saying you loved your ( X-BOY FRIEND )and know you are saying you hurt your boy friend and you dont love him you think of him as your brother and that he was crying and you didn't do any thing about it if i was him i would run as fast from you as i possible could you are a very rude person and very unconsidered person you dont deserves to have a boy friend
2006-12-22 04:04:21 · answer #9 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know... it is not fair to you or your bf to go on like this. You need to let him go so he can go find that someone who means as much to him, as your ex means to you. I think he could respect you for that... you both deserve to be happy. Good Luck!
2006-12-22 03:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by DitziD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋