i got 2 guys in my life....1's my boyfriend and other 1's my best friend....i cant lose this guys for anycase....but the prob is they don't like each other...suppose if i talk this guy the other 1 wiill get pissed....i'm reall gettin freaked out.....they never understand my feelin towards each other...ppl plz help me out of this...i need both of them....
2006-12-22 03:35:40 · 17 answers · asked by preetha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your boyfriend doesn't like like your male friend and you dont understand why.
hmmmmmmm
2006-12-22 03:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend and a boyfriend? cool. Why not ask both of them to sit with u a while and explain to them your feelings for both of them. if they are what u really think they are they will and should understand. Your boyfriend must appreciate that u can have a good friend too besides him and the best friend should also accept the other guy as ur boyfriend. If they dont, then chances are that both of them are phonies. Or your best friend wants you to be more than a friend, may be he wants to make u his girlfriend. if ur boyfriend does not accept another guy as ur best friend, he must be feeling either insecure and this insecurity must be over with ur explanation. if he does not understand it even then, then it implies that he is jealous of anyone being near you and does not trust u or have enough faith in you. In either of the cases he does not deserve the status of a good boyfriend and u better drop him. likewise if ur best friend does not accept someone as your boyfried, he also is not a sincere friend. so he also deserves to be dropped like a hot potato.
if u wish to give them another chance, stop meeting both of them and make it clear to them that u can not accept anyone of them singly. Either they accept each other or they should move out of ur life. if any one of them is sincere, he will come back to u and accept the condition. if none comes back to this compromise, then good riddance.
IN that case accept the fact that u fell in the trap of two phonies and go on with ur life. there is no dearth of sincere guys in this world as there is no dearth of phonies. Its better to lose a phoney guy than to be saddled with one all ur life. Use ur head rather than heart dear and this uncertainity will be over on its own soon.
Good luck
2006-12-22 04:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sumit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fix one of your girlfriend up with your Best Friend so you can all hang out and everyone will be happy you can havr them both. If you have to choose I would go with the best friend because a bf will come and go and a true friend will always be there when the other is not.
2006-12-22 03:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you physical with both? If so, I understand why you have to choose. All I can say is follow your heart. What has worked for me in the past is to make a Pro/Con list for both guys and go from there.
2006-12-22 03:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good that u need both. Infact i had 3 girls in my life like that.
Is it worth it??
YOu have to decide whom u want may be both are not suited to you. may be u r very special
Check out man and enjoy life. Life is too short for getting complicated between 2 guys
Procastination is thief of time too
Love allways and all ways
2006-12-22 03:40:17 · answer #5 · answered by suma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember I told you Position 69 ? Just a while ago ??
Try this with both, but in this case it will be Special 69 where both will insert their respective pricks - u'll receive one each at Top n at Bottom. You all will be Happy ! Have a long lasting Orgasm !
2006-12-22 04:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by Tushar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This particularly is a seize 22 difficulty. you like Shin, and he likes you returned. decide on him. long distance relationships can paintings. believe me! learn pal seems to have lost activity in you and has moved on. he's your ex for a reason. He would do the same element he did till now. i understand precisely the way you sense, i nevertheless like my ex very lots. yet believe me, choose for the Shin guy
2016-12-15 06:13:10 · answer #7 · answered by woolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u just try to make them understand themself if its not happened then just bring both of them in front and u must be there and u just make them understand ur feelings and then its very easy to be with both of them then u will have ur B/F and also ur best friend for ever and it will take some time be cool ok BEST OF LUCK
2006-12-22 03:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong--you don't neeeeeed both of them. you want to have both of them in your life. need is different. i would say that good friends are forever and boyfriends/girlfriends are not always guaranteed to last forever. don't throw away a friend for a lover--because if a lover cannot tolerate your friends, he cannot tolerate who you are inside. it will evetually come out. jealousy ends with 'lousy'
2006-12-22 10:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is the only advice i have and seeing as i'm alittle older i know what i'm talking aboutfirst and always friends will always be there and b/f's come and go so dont ever lose ur friends over some boyfriend
trust me i know what i'm talking about
good luck
2006-12-22 03:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by jane_queen_of_jungle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even u won't like your bf's female friend, this is normal behaviour.
make up ur mind who should be ur friend and who ur trophy husband. ask ur other friends to know what ur male frien feels about you. or just speak to him about this issue. this will surely show his true color.
remember who do u love is not important but who loves YOU.
2006-12-22 03:46:50 · answer #11 · answered by Raj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋