i rang him to ask him to collect his stuff, and now i cant stop thinking bout him!!(not all good tho) ANY IDEAS HOW TO JUST DEMINISH ALL THOUGHTS FROM MY HEAD??thanks xx happy xmas all!! xx
2006-12-22 03:27:34 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone is different. For me it took my therapist (seeing one for other reasons ) to tell me to write my ex a letter. Saying anything I want to say, how I want to say it, and then burn the letter. Don't send it. You would be amazed how much it really helps. I know it sounds silly, but just try it.
2006-12-22 03:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by SM M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babedonz, calling him was a bad bad mistake. You should've just sent him a text telling him to collect his stuff. What's done is done so now you need to pack up all his stuff into black bin liners, then text him to tell him his stuff is sititng outside your house or will be in the next 30 mins or so and if he wants them then he should pop round to pick them up otherwise, Oh well! :-)
After you have done this, DELETE his number from your phone and his email address from your Hotmail, Yahoo, other Email A/C's!! :-)
2006-12-22 03:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to concentrate on why you felt compelled to break with him and what he did to deserve that. That will help you to regain the contrtol over your feelings.
2006-12-22 03:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time, baby. Distract yourself with hobbies, friends, etc. and let time work him out of your head. Good luck!
2006-12-22 03:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now and again i have to talk to my ex and it happens every time even though hes an asss hole. weve been split 4 years, it never goes away,sorry
2006-12-22 03:35:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about why you finished and what happened to remind your self about what it is that split you up in the first place! merry crimbo to u all and hope u sort this out
2006-12-22 03:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by devil at work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something to take ur mind off him and keep urself busy. go out more often or invite friends over
2006-12-22 05:47:43 · answer #7 · answered by groundhog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new bf and that will take yer mind off the ex
2006-12-22 03:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time. Lots and lots of time. It'll pass soon enough, you just have to be patient and wait it out.
2006-12-22 03:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by melsaruly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
occupy yourself and try not to think about him too much...get a hobby or have friends over, or do something that will take your mind off him...merry christmas to you too....
2006-12-22 03:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋