Me and my girlfriend had a great relationship of about 8 months. Suddenly we were unable to communicate. After about a month, I began a new relationship. But after a couple days in this new relationship. The first girl called and gave me a relevant reason why we couldn't get in touch. I had no Idea. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-12-22 03:06:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anthony P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep. You cheated. Next time make sure all ties are broken. Best bet here is to tell the first girl you moved on, and just want to end things.
2006-12-22 03:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, well... were you two actually in a relationship, OR were you on a mutual break of some kind? If you both were just having troubles BUT still together, then Yes your a cheater. BUT if you two were on a mutual break then no, not really anyways. I would tell her whats going on... it'll get it off your chest and plus its just the right thing to do. Doing the right thing and feeling crappy is always better then doin the wrong thing and feelin good about it. Be honest... that way even if you are in the wrong then at least you began to make up for it by telling the truth ya know... Good Luck to you.
2006-12-22 11:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ash420Granito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How good of a relationship could it have been if you were willing to write it off after being unable to communicate for a small period of time? Love would have been willing to make the effort to get in touch or at least be willing to wait for a while to see what may come. Anything "great" about this relationship was probably illusory. You cheated. She may take you back and forgive you but it would appear that this relationship is doomed.
2006-12-22 11:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by furiousstyles22003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you need to decide and choose.
no, you didnt cheat on her. what you did wrong probably was that you didnt make enough effort to bring the relationship to a formal closure meaning where both parties understand that its really over.
your first girlfriend's fault is probably the same. i cant figure out how can anybody who is in a relationship leave anybody hanging on air for about a month....ha...you have to consider that too.
im pretty sure you wouldnt get into a new relationship if you dont love this new one...thats the reason i suggested you decide. if you dont as soon as you can...then i will brand you a cheater...just kidding...good luck! :)
2006-12-22 11:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by jecri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a way that is considered cheating and also no because you went about it the wrong way plus you didn't know you was still together. Instead of calling the person or trying to talk to her and getting the answer to rather you two still go w/ eachother, you decided to move on or get another girlfriend. Now the right thing would have been to wait.
2006-12-22 11:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should have concluded the first relationship. If the 1st meant any thing to you at all one month wouldnt have been enough time to "get over her".
Nevertheless, what's done is done. A cheater? To men, no to women yes.
Remember the tv show "Friends"? Ross and Rachel. Ross dated someone else because they were on a break. Same thing
2006-12-22 11:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by eddie9551 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do? You can't keep them both. End of story. You either tell your new girl that you just can't be with her and you're in love w/ someone else OR you tell your old girl that it wasn't working out. One of them has to go - no matter what - or both? It's your choice - just don't drag them both along.
It's not cheating - it sounds like a mistake...but on the other hand you probably should've waited to hear from your girlfriend to see what was going on...that is kind of strange that you had NO communication for a month??
2006-12-22 11:09:03 · answer #7 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating because you never ended the first relationship. I completely understand where you are coming from. I was in the same situation. My boyfriend and I loss touch with each other and I thought it was because he didn't want to be with me, so I went elsewhere. We talked about what happened and worked it out and we are still together and very much in love. Decide who you want to be with and talk to both ladies. One will be hurt, but alt least you won't feel bad or guilty by leading one on.
2006-12-22 11:10:28 · answer #8 · answered by Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not a cheater. A cheater is someone who cheats on someone who they think they are actually going out with. Just explain to the first girl how everything happened and see what she says. Then i guess the first thing to do is find out which one you would rather be with.
2006-12-22 11:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by alwayslate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You thought the relationship was over. If you feel so inclined, call it off with your new girlfriend and go back to your old. Explain to her what happened. You sound genuinely sorry, so sound that way to her as well and she will most likely understand.
2006-12-22 11:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by Earnesty_in_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋