I am in love with one guy but I think I am falling for this other guy that is so nice and I shouldn't because I made a mess to this one guy by sending him mixed messages..I don't know if he likes me or not but he did say he could never be angry at me but I think he just wants me for a friend but I treated him really bad but he always came back and talked to me..I keep looking for him and wondering about him...I am so scared to be just friends with him...what should I do..I really don't think he wants me for a GF its me who wacked out...I don't know whats wrong with me...I am so confused and scared and don't know how to do...he sent me a pinch and a flirt on my 360 page I think
2006-12-22 02:58:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow up and act mature. And I don't mean that to be insulting but if you are having feelings for another guy you need to probably step away from both and sort out your feeling before you end up hurting someone.
2006-12-22 03:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are not in love with your BF if you have these feelings for another, at least not deeply in love.
You better figure out what is important to you and make a decision. What ever you do, be truthfull to all involved, don't hide anything. Do not cheat on your BF. IF you aren't happy enough with your BF that you would be looking at other men, you need to tell him.
USually, the grass is greener on the other side until you get over there and find someone just painted it to look green trying to get you over there.
2006-12-22 11:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hummmm, I would ask my self what guy you would be happier with (don't let looks into the picture) then if you like the one that is not your bf then you should think about it more, make a list of 'pros and cons' then if the other guy still wins then you should go with him. But before you get really close wait awhile so that no fights come up.
2006-12-22 11:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by thatonegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy
look, ive done almost exactly the same thing- but see, either its one of two things
1) ur tricking urself- you love ur bf more than anything any no guy could make u change ur mind
2) you really do like another guy and feel terrible
luckly for me, it was the first one- if you dont know whitch one it is- then ask urself this question
-picture the other guy asking u out while ur still going out with ur bf- do u say yes and break up w/ ur guy?
if the answer is yes- then break up with ur bf FAST
good luck sweetie ;)
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2006-12-22 11:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. I love my girlfriend alot. But there is this girl that I still drull over. I think what matters now is how much love is in your relationship. Do you see yourself with this guy forever and always? I see it in my relationship but I wouldnt mind doing you know what to my crush. Muah! Anyways, I am very faithful, but these are just fantasies you have and dreams of the perfect guy. He wont be perfect. Dont lead him on. Happy holidays.
2006-12-22 11:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Brevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that you love your current bf now if you can even think of another. I would break it off with the one you have now and stay single until you know what you really want. you are not being fair to your boyfriend. whould you like it if it was the other way around.
2006-12-22 11:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you just stop worrying about boys altogether. If the guy wants you as his girl then he'll tell you.
Go hang out w/ your girlfriends - go to a movie or go shopping or something and stop obsessing over boys.
You're too young to have all your worries surrounding them!
2006-12-22 11:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Niko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of stuff is going to happen all your life.
Even after you are married.
Stay in touch with your feelings, priorities.
Always be truthful and respect your own commitments.
There will always be temptation that you will have to resist.
You sound young, and it's in youth that we can date and experiment.
Have fun but be safe!
2006-12-22 11:03:28 · answer #8 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it like this...do u see ur friend giving u better devotion, or r u gonna drop everything and go to him and he ends up wasting ur time? if u see things going better w/ ur friend then break it off..but if u dont even know how ur friend feels then u should do some more investigation b4 u decide on who to be w/
2006-12-22 11:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through this before. if you break up with your boyfriend you'll realize how much you miss him and know that he is the one for you. there is something in your relationship now that is making your mind wonder and you need to talk to your boyfriend about it and figure it out. don't put out signs that you don't want put out
2006-12-22 11:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋