He told me this on monday. Then yesterday he told me he slept with someone on wednesday. I don't care who or how or when, but it's made me feel really sad and depressed.
2006-12-22 02:17:01 · 28 answers · asked by Hailstone Mary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you have not been with anyone else, you did not give it to him. However, you need to get yourself to the clinic/doctor and have a complete STD screen. And get treated, many of the STD's in women show no signs or symptoms for a very long time. And I would leave him alone, not only did he cheat on you he did not use a condom and he has put you at risk for HIV. This is very serious. God bless****
2006-12-22 02:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, forget him and get yourself tested right now!!! If you've been faithful, then you already know the real answer, but you have to protect yourself. And remember the legal environment we are living in today...he might get a lawyer and sue you for what he might have gotten from someone else...if he really has something. This could also be a ploy by him to break-up, but again don't take a chance. Now quit reading these answers and go get yourself tested right NOW!!!!
2006-12-22 10:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by mottthedog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry that you are sad. And Im sorry that your boyfriend thinks that you gave him an STD. Go get tested and make sure that you dont have anything or if you do have something you can get it taken care of. Chances are if he's so quick to hop in the sack with another girl KNOWING he has an STD, put her at risk, and he probably didn't tell her he had one. That's very immature and potentially life threatening. Did you know if that girl contracts something she can sue him in civil court? If he gives her something like HIV she can prosecute him for all sorts of things. Attempted murder, malicious wounding...the list goes on and on.
Go get tested...get taken care of...and for god sakes please use condoms!
2006-12-22 10:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Love Tha Skins! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is go to the doctor, and/or the health department to report him. Get yourself tested. Your responsibility is to yourself!! Make sure you are in the best of health!! You cant trust ANYONE!! And, dont have unsafe sex again! This is a great lesson learned! Unfortunately the hard way! But, be thankful you have learned it!! it is a hidden blessing!
2006-12-22 10:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by thelaundryfairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just in case get yourself checked out. Then be sure to ditch him as he probably got it from someone else while he was with you. Then take the lesson about unprotected sex and be pleased that it is not HIV.
Happy Christmas.
2006-12-22 10:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's using a fake std story to give him an excuse to sleep with someone else.
2006-12-22 11:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him u obviously don't wanna loose Ur health over someone who behaves cheap and talks cheap. All he is worried about is his dick and not u .. Stay strong and do yourself a favor leave this man.
2006-12-22 10:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has been cheating and has not used protection and because he has caught something he is blaming you in order to cover his tracks. take yourself down the clinic and check that he has not given you anything. before you do that get rid of him, he aint worth it.
good luck.
2006-12-22 16:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its possible for an std to show after a few days. your b/f is bullshitting ya and trying to reverse the guilt on you and make you feel at fault for his dilly/dallying shennighans. you know what to do.
2006-12-22 10:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ring up and get yourself checked out, and make sure you stay away from him, if he can tell you that he slept with someone and accuse you of giving him summat, he aint worth being with.......(if you really want to feel good think that you did give it 2 him cuz he deserves it, and next time remember, CONDOMS!!!LOL!!!)
2006-12-22 11:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋