Honest and serious answers only please.
I'm just curious; when guys are in a relationship (whether dating, living together, or married), do they still think about other girls?
Is this because they are unsatisfied or what is the reason.
I'm curious and I hope someone can give me a good answer.
Thanks!
2006-12-22 02:09:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW...I'm not at ALL concerned that he'd leave or that he'd cheat.
I'm just curious as what reasons guys may list as to why they think about other girls when in a relationship. Is it out of your control?
2006-12-22 02:28:34 · update #1
You've got it a little wrong here. Guys are always thinking about SEX. Girls are incidental.
2006-12-22 02:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anastasia 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. It's natural. They don't do it as a special thing or anything, but they do. They still feel little crushes, in preety girls, they only don't show it nor do anything about it. My bf, says he is soo in love with me, but he has told me that he has other crushes as well, but that he'll never leave me. And he told me that all his friends do, without it having a porpouse. And.. u may notice, once in a while, but most of the time, they're really good hiding it, because they'll also thinking, mostly, of u, and how they'll never lose u for a hot chick. But.. when a guy cheats on u, that means that they actually thought the girl was more worth the while than u.
The reason is that they also see, as we all do. They still interact. They r still the same people than before the relationship. So it's basically very natural for them 2 see a preety girl and think about her 2.
Before I didn't understand, and I even got a little hurt by my bf, when I also noticed this. But then, I got it, that it's nothing bad. And it'll never hurt a relationship, if it's strong. And if ur strong, hon.
Good luck and God bless,
smile and b beautiful,
Lil' Cowy
2006-12-22 02:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Golden 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a guy does think about other women while in such relationships then he is not in love at all with the woman who is his girlfriend or wife. In such instances the guy does not know his own mind and is happy just messing around from one woman to another. Of course, girls are like this as well and so are women sometimes whether married or living together with a guy. Most men are contentnwith one woman if they love her and care for her from their heart. These days there is a lot of playing the field by both sexes. To say that every guy always thinks about other girls would be a mistake just as it would to say that every girl always thinks about other guys. Some do and some don't.
2006-12-22 02:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a guy, but i would venture to guess that the answer is yes--that's human nature! But that's normal. I am 23, in a 4 year relationship, and couldn't be happier, but i know I'm still young and find myself wondering about other things sometimes. But every time i do, i just smile and know that I've got a great thing going on. You'll always be tempted, but I like to focus on what i have that's already good! why fix it if it's not broken!
2006-12-22 02:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by should be working 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like Dan's reply. But you must understand how men are wired to understand WHY we are constantly looking or thinking about women. It's how we are - just look at the animal world, lions, for example. Males are wired to procreate. And to the extent we do that, that's where our satisfaction comes from.
So if you're worrying about your bf or husband, then, never let him leave with live ammunition. Make sure his weapon is always empty when he leaves. In our defense, there are always willing women accomplices regardless of our status. So to a great extent women have great control over their own happiness and their mate's loyalty. Just keep him happy and satisfied in that way.
2006-12-22 02:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
guys always think about boobs or buts!
I love my fiance his my all life,but he loves big boobs,but he stays with me and I 'm a small B cup .We argued a lot because he always buys porn of xxxxxL boobs,so I thought that maybe he was not satisfied with me.One day we had a discussion about this and he told me that he likes big boobs,but he'll never leave me for someone else. Just think about guys thinking about girl the same way we think about clothes! Girls have the all shopping thing going on and guys have boobs ans buts LOL.
Don't worry is not going to think about girls the all time,maybe h if he sees some hot girls he'll look at her ,but his not going to think about her.
2006-12-22 02:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls,cars,food,football, What else is there?
Oh yeah and Girls too!
We are genetically predisposed to always be thinking about girls. If we stop thinking about girls we are scared we might become gay so we must always think about Girls.
2006-12-22 02:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like hats. I see a lot of hats that I wouldn't mind trying on, but they don't compare to my favorite one.
2006-12-22 02:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by SorryI'maChampion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they think about others, but that doesn't mean they are going to do anything about it.
2006-12-22 02:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not always, just 99% of the time!!!!
2006-12-22 03:08:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋