this man hurt me badly and i did not heard from him for almost two months and now he is calling me. should i respond or not?
2006-12-22 02:02:15 · 25 answers · asked by sweet girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no
2006-12-22 02:04:40 · answer #1 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hurt you once chances are he will do it again. If he could give you an explanation you would allow you to forgive and forget and he learned the error of his ways that might be something, but most of the time the cad just got a piece of someone else for a time and that's done so he is ready to take you back. I would move on. Patterns in behavior have a way of repeating themselves.
2006-12-22 02:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by kpd2020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to? He hurt you terribly, and you have not heard from him in two months. The fact that you are even entertaining the idea, tells me you are not over him. Leave him where he is (alone). Move on with your life, unless you want to give him another chance to hurt you again. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-22 02:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would, if I were you.
He has called you because, to put it bluntly, a Powerful God is the Great God Horn.
If you are a masochist, well yes. Consider bringing a set of handcuffs and a nice whip along.
If he hurt you physically and you enjoyed it, seek professional help and forget the dude.
2006-12-22 02:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Richard E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hurt you and you don't want to get back together with him. I wouldn't respond. You seem to be doing good without him.
2006-12-22 02:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hurt u no i wouldnt. he not worth it. he did bother to call u sooner and he probaly want something, like money, sex,a place to stay or something like that or he could want to chat but he gonna end up hurting u again, later
2006-12-22 02:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should respond just to see what he has to say and thats it....but make sure you dont fall into his lies about what he was doing and where he was at....Good luck
2006-12-22 02:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by lovher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ! not unless you need to get something off your chest, otherwise what's the point? So he can hurt you again?
2006-12-22 03:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure answer him see what he may want then tell him thanks for calling but i have lot to do. now if wants to take you out go out spend that cash just do not give that butt up make him want you and just be too busy for his Time see what happen es next .let me no
2006-12-22 02:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by fatbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY!! Respond and pretend like everything is all better. Then rip his heart out and destroy him. I Guarantee you will feel better.
2006-12-22 02:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by Evilish13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldn't he could hurt u, maybe even throw ur phone out somewhere, y risk ur life?
2006-12-22 02:04:58 · answer #11 · answered by , 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋