There is this girl I kind of like, I have gone out with her 2 times but in very casual situations never a date...the last time I texted her like at 2 am and invited her over to my place, she came and all we did was kiss she did not want to do anything else..she flat out told she wasn't doing anything...I know she likes me back, so why did she come over but just kissed me back??
2006-12-22 02:00:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell me that kissing wasn't fun. Respect her wishes and wait for her to be ready.
2006-12-22 02:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, the enigma of women. Here's the thing: women need MENTAL stimulation. They (typically) make love with their minds. They suffer from a great deal more guilt than men do (I shouldn't have eaten that, shouldn't have bought that, shouldn't have slept with that guy, etc, etc,). Take some time, get to know her, take an interest in what interests her. If she's into theater buy some tickets and surprise her. If she's never been to the theater... it would be a nice surprise. Either way, if she' s a nice girl she just won't "give it up" on the 3rd date. Good luck.
Slainte,
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2006-12-22 10:05:10 · answer #2 · answered by chicagodan1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So....what you wanted was a booty call from this girl? How flattering!!! Why not back off a bit and date the girl. She told you she's not going to sleep with you right away, and you should respect her for that. If that's all you want, move on and leave her for a decent guy who will treat her well. You're letting your hormones get the best of you.
2006-12-22 10:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is testing you. She will probably come over many times and every few months let you go a little bit further. In a couple of years you will finally be going all the way. Hang in there.
2006-12-22 10:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She prob felt like u were using her for a booty call. You have only been witht eh girl for two dates. She might have been used by a guy before and deosnt want to be taken advantage of
2006-12-22 10:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by sexy*kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is how you think... maybe she's too good for you! If your just looking for a hook-up sounds like your looking in the wrong place. Be a gentleman and the relationship will progress, be a jerk and it will end quickly.
2006-12-22 10:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess would be that she is more interested in taking the time to get to know you before going to the next step! Wouldn't you rather have a good girl then a hooker?
2006-12-22 10:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by bgirly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is waiting till marriage,where she can give all her pure love to you without it being tainted? If she slept around and slept with your best friend, that is like you sleeping with your best friend and his dates- and all their dates- who knows who has what these days??? Did you know that an aids cell can go thru a condom like a golf ball through a basket ball hoop?
2006-12-22 10:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by Northville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wanted to spend some time with you. You know that when two people get together they dont have to have sex all the time. I think that when you spend quality time together this can often mean more than having sex.
2006-12-22 10:04:30 · answer #9 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just wait on a girl u have to take control if she really likes u then she will tell u by herself wait till she does u will be fine.
2006-12-22 10:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by Puma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋