im in 10 grade and for a while now i have liked this girl, and i have tried many different things to get her to be more interested in me. i had asked her to go hang out with me, go c a movie, or go to the mall with me last weekend and the weekend befor that.
i try to talk to her and stuff like that and at times i used to think she was interested in me...but im not sure now and i thinks thats becuase im nervous about what she thinks of me and stuff...so i was wonderin what should i do about that ?
and another thing i had just asked her if shed like to hang out next wednesday and she said she doesnt know what shes doin yet...and im goin on vacation the next day for a week...so i dont know if i should stop asking her cause i dont want to annoy her and stuff (but its hard because i really like her) or should i keep trying to get her to be interested in me
sorry this is so long
but thank you
and i appreciate any answers
2006-12-22 01:53:41 · 14 answers · asked by JoE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
son, no. stop asking her. if you keep asking her, you'll lose what ever little interest she has in you. here is the deal. the more you try, the more she'll push you away. from now on, just say "hi, how's going?" or any small talk. that's all for now. she'll approach you if she has any interest. i know it's painful, but that what you need to do.
2006-12-22 02:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worse thing you can do is to assume something you know nothing about. She may have a legitimate reason for telling you she doesn't know what she is doing at that time. Don't assume she is avoiding you because she may not be doing that at all. Also it sounds as though you are pushing her into something and that is not good to do and maybe she feels that is what you are ding and is turnbed off by it. I know I would be if I thought that you were doing it to me. Give it time and let time dictate what you do next. Maybe it is best to give it a rest and go on vacation and see things in a new persepctive and then when you return start over again and give her the benefit of the doubt. Know what I mean?
2006-12-22 10:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have decided to get you to ask her the "big question" is by playing hard to get. Wait awhile, ask her out another time for another thing, if she turns you down she may not be interested. If she accepts great, if not, start looking elsewhere. Remember, girls have similar feelings about insecurities. You will know when the time is right to ask her to be your girlfriend. Has she ever accepted your invitation? if she hasn't you may want to move on.
2006-12-22 10:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get her interest is to ignore her. Men that are hard to get are more appealing. Men that have a lot of freinds in every catagory, are appealing, men that are smart are appealiing, men that are happy all the time and outgoing draw people to themselves. Who knows, you may draw someone much better to you with these traits.
2006-12-22 09:58:13 · answer #4 · answered by Northville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is tell her how you feel and explain to her if she's not interested to let you know so you can stop asking her out. You will be doing yourself a favor in finding out how she feels upfront without wasting anymore time. good luck!
2006-12-22 10:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicks are evil. Call your guy friends and hang out with them for another 5 or so years.
2006-12-22 09:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her, what is most unattractive is you being so nervous! quit playing around and ask her, and you can either move on with or without her, but you will KNOW!!
best of luck!
2006-12-22 10:00:10 · answer #7 · answered by Dena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she does see you as a potential mate.You should not pester her. Play it cool.Be nice.Try again in a couple of years.
2006-12-22 10:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. If she says no, don't sweat it. Trust me, the guys that strike out in high school are the ones ROLLING in sex after high school.
2006-12-22 10:00:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a letter telling her how u feel about her and leave it for to find on her desk at school, locker or just hand it to her. leave ur number and ask her to please call her with wat she thinks,like yes/no. also tell her u kinda nervous and u didnt mean to ask and annyo so much if u did, and sorry. and leave it up to her to finish, later
2006-12-22 10:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋