How can I be more social?

Question

well i am feeling very unsocial lately, because all my friends already have their own possy they want to hang out with, because they are more popular. i want to hang out with them, but i'm not sure they want to, or they are too busy to. and with the coming 2 weeks off of school, i'm going to be very bored. please give me some advice!

Answer 1

Hang out at McDonalds by the Rd Box machine!1 It is the hip thing to do these days!!

Answer 2

One way to deal with your friends who seem to be ditching you for more "popular" kids is to realize that popularity is kind of an illusion that people create. Have you seen "Never Been Kissed"? If so, there's a scene where Rob (played by David Arquette) comes into the High School that Josie (played by Drew Barrymore) is attending as an undercover reporter who is very uncool, and Rob by rumors and innuendo makes Josie seem very cool and she becomes popular. Popularity and "coolness" are really just an illusion people create. You are cool and unique and interesting, especially when you accept yourself as you are and embrace life with enthusiasm!

Don't hesitate to call people and arrange get-togethers or make plans to hang out! By being the inviter, you place yourself in a stronger position than by being someone trying to get invited to go along with other people! Suggest going to the movies, going out to eat, going for a walk, going shopping or window shopping, think of creative things your friends like and maybe work on building up a couple of friendships you really value and you think have potential to grow into closer friendships. Have a movie-fest at your house, plan a time to try some new recipes together, set up an informal event with friends like a mini talent show or something, go to a concert. Enjoy time by yourself, too, there's nothing wrong with that.

Hope you have a wonderful winter vacation from school and a great spring semester! Peace and blessing!

Answer 3

The trick is to dress and act the way everyone wants you to dress and act. There is no better way of ostrasizing yourself than trying to be a "non-conformist".

Also, if you wear more revealing clothes, you'll attract a lot of male attention. Then, everyone will want to be YOUR friend.

Just go out to a bar with a low-cut top and a short skirt... you'll see what I mean.

Answer 4

ok if your friends don't want to hang out with you then they probaly aren't your friends. Find some people that want to hang out with you, you'll probally have more fun with them anyways. Some good places to meet people who aren't superficial are at voulenteer work, or get a job, some of my best friends I have met on the job site.

Answer 5

may be u dont care about your appearence, try to make a little makeup and do a little stuff on your hair, if u looks beautful but still dont wanna talk with you may be cause you dont have friends ( girls) which will attract more than single girl alone, become a sociable person depending mainly on your personality how you listen to others before how to speak with others m. many many words can said about that,

Answer 6

Well, I don't know if you need to "form a posse"...but certainly becoming a part of an activity (such as a sport, club, etc) will allow you to interact and meet with people that you can find common interests with!

Answer 7

you are not sure if they would b/c you havnet asked them....call them up and ask them if they want to hang out....very simple. you are making this harder than it is.

Answer 8

Smile and just make small talk

Answer 9

if they were your friends they would include you... go ice skating or something there are lots of kids there...