you see my boyfriend lives like 100 and more miles away from me and i'm not sure if he is cheating on me or not.hes been acting a little weird lately,
2006-12-22 01:22:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course that means i have a long distance relationship.
2006-12-22 01:59:46 · update #1
i love him very much too.
2006-12-22 02:00:36 · update #2
if you think he is...he probably is....
2006-12-22 01:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask if you can trust him then you don't. In a long distance relationship try not to maintain high expectations and attempt to be understanding. If you notice behavior that is out of the ordinary eliminate cause such as stress, family problems etc. Most importantly trust your judgement and intuition. I feel you already have your answer.
2006-12-22 09:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by MindGawker.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know, nobody does when someone lives that far. Same problem hear my new girl ive been seeing lives 50 min away and i only see her once or twice a week, its kinda hard to tell if she's being good. She's probably cheating right now
2006-12-22 09:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating.
2006-12-22 09:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move 100 mile in the other direction and see what happens. If he stops coming over then you know he is cheating!!
2006-12-22 09:24:24 · answer #5 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u feelings already this then probably something is wrong. Maybe u should ask him whats going on. And if u feel he is not being honest than maybe its time u should leave him. Trust me there is no point in being in a relationship and feeling this way.it will only cause u pain and heartache. Good luck.
2006-12-22 09:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your intuition is telling you something is wrong - trust that - but don't guess about what is wrong. If you care about him, sit down and have an honest conversation about your feelings. Tell him that you sense that something has changed, and that you are concerned that maybe the long distance relationship isn't working for him. Ask him how he feels.
Maybe he'll open up...
If he clams up...then you have to decide how committed you are to him while you keep trying to figure out what is going on.
2006-12-22 09:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by DorkBait 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
160 km is just a nice drive and ask him why he is acting weird --- there may be an innocent explanation ---- yes he may be cheating but if you dont trust him then the relationship is in trouble anyway
2006-12-22 09:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100 miles is not that far (to me), you should know what kind of man he is and i always say when you are in a relationship no matter how good you must always leave room for disappointment
2006-12-22 09:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...the whole dating thing is so complicated. Personally, I am not commiting myself to any man that is not my husband, father or son. You should really evaluate why you are doing this. Are the two of you engaged? If not, let it go.
2006-12-22 09:32:18 · answer #10 · answered by chosengeneration 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the long distance thing NEVER works out. and yeah, most likely he's cheating. so find someone closer to where you live.
2006-12-22 09:25:54 · answer #11 · answered by Velvet_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋