Im in love and not sure what to do.This guy is going to be moving soon.Im not sure how to tell this guy how i luv him.What if he never talks to me again because i made him feel uncomfrtable by telling him...
2006-12-22 01:10:46 · 6 answers · asked by halleyluvu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't tell him will you regret it? If so, how much? These are the questions you may need to ask yourself and answer honestly. If the pain of not telling him is going to be worse than worst case scenario rejection, then tell him.
2006-12-22 01:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy!
That`s a tough one!
I would personally talk to him before he leaves.
It`ll be too late once he`s gone, won`t it?
As far as I`m concerned, I don`t think I could live with myself or forgive myself if I let someone I deeply cared about slip away so easily.
How strongly do you actually feel about him?
Is it really love or simply lust?
How well do you know him?
Are you friends at least?
Have you guys ever engaged in mild flirtation?
What is your gut instinct regarding how he may feel about you?
Always trust your gut instinct!
As far as I know, it never fails!
And don`t worry too much about him not talking to you ever again because you might have made him feel somewhat uncomfortable.
If you ever find out that he doesn`t feel the same way about you, he`s leaving anyways, remember?
You won`t have to see him or deal with his negative emotions or feelings of anger towards you so go for it and open your heart to him!
Be brave!
Gather up all your female courage and...
Go get him tiger!!!
Good luck to you & HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!
P.S. Is he going much too far away for you guys to keep in touch with one another or visit from time to time?
2006-12-22 09:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to tell him. You never know, he may feel the same way. If you don't tell him than you will always wonder what could have been. I would just be honest about your feelings and tell him that you don't want to jeopardize the friendship that you already have.
Good luck!
2006-12-22 09:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by miss lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do something, tell him quickly, before it's too late, before he finds out a girl who really loves him and who really he can be inlove with!
2006-12-22 09:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dump him, cos that means he doesnt luv you back
2006-12-22 09:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by Blade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you make him uncomfortable. guys loved to know that some one liks them. at least you will know wat will happen if you tell.but if you dont then you will hate your self thinking wat he would have said.
2006-12-22 09:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by baby faced satan woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋