And I was wondering if you could help me or advise me on it, hopefully?
What would you do if you found the photograph of another girl (no one famous, just someone younger & more attractive than your good self) & an unused condom inside your boyfriend or husband`s wallet?
Would you confront him about it or just ignore it until it becomes an unavoidable & serious issue within your relationship?
Please help! I am totally prepared, willing and able to work with any relevent advice or helpful suggestion!!!
P.S. Just so you know, I wasn`t "snooping" in anybody`s wallet; he asked me to get some change for the parking meter and must have simply forgotten it was in there or something! (Here`s hoping!)
2006-12-22 01:10:21 · 26 answers · asked by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, gosh...when I read your letter I got that sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach that I got one time when I saw that my Sweetheart had a profile up on a dating site "just out of curiousity". I confronted him,, and I think you have to do the same because these things NEVER just go away, do they? You'll keep thinking of it constantly until one day it'll just blurt out--the wrong way---so you might as well pick your moment, take a deep breath, and ask who she is and why she's in his wallet....and then ask if he's unahppy with your relationship. Try to talk it out, maybe there's hope that he will be honest with you and give your relationship a fair chance.
I wish you good luck, dear...my heart goes out to you right now.
2006-12-22 01:17:22 · answer #1 · answered by hot_italian_empress 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-23 15:27:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely ask him about it before you drive yourself crazy! It may be perfectly innocent...but then again....does he use condoms with you? Then again..how old is the condom in the wallet? Too many unanswered questions...be direct...say.."Hey remember the other day when you asked me to get change for the parking meter? Well, I saw this picture of a girl and there was also a condom...Is there something I should know?" Say it pleasantly...not combative. Good luck
2006-12-22 01:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by trivia buff 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
what if he intentionally lets you see the photo and the condom so that you would confront him instead of him having to tell you that he's having an affair...
it can be possible that he forgot that he hid the photo and the condom in his wallet, but, who in the world would forget something as vital as that, especially if he knows that he's guilty...people who are guilty of having an affair and at the same time wouldn't want to be caught, would not let you touch his personal belongings without him inspecting it first right?
so here's the deal...and it's the only option you have...talk to him directly, (it's up to you on what state of mood you prefer) and demand for explanation...if you are his girlfriend much more his wife, you deserve nothing but the truth...so go unravel the truth now...
2006-12-22 01:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by cramwithme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should say something. And be prepared for a "good excuse", and if you believe what he says then I really feel sorry for you. This happened to me with my 1st husband. And he lied to me (different girl every couple of months) the whole time we were married (5 yrs). I finally woke up and smelled the coffee. I have been with my second husband since 1983 and he has NEVER given me any reason to believe he is ANYTHING like the first one. We are still totally in love!
2006-12-22 01:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where there's smoke there is usually fire....but just to be on the safe side perhaps you may want to politely ask him what the heck is up with all that. I don't think I'd wait until it becomes a full blown issue. If he's doing the "two women" thing...free him up for the other one involved and find yourself someone that will be faithful.
2006-12-22 01:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by slick chik 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him and watch his reaction. Don't make any assumptions though and don't start blaming him for cheating. If he says the girl is a friend, ask questions and about her and ask can you meet her soon. Ask about the condom also. If you guys aren't using condoms then he shouldn't have condoms on him unless something esle was planning on happening or has already happened and is going to happen again.
2006-12-22 01:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by Trey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's always going to be someone prettier or younger. If your in a serious relationship or marriage I would simply ask who the picture was. Give him a picture of you for his wallet. In marriage I would be very concerned about a condom.
2006-12-22 01:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, not knowing the state of your relationship, it's possible that you are reading more into it....however, a simple "hey, who is this" might elicit an emotional response (as in "he's lying") that you can base your decision on. The condom is a "be prepared" thing that might be for YOU when he gets in an adventurous mood!
2006-12-22 01:13:50 · answer #9 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its just a picture that came with the wallet and the Condom is from Free Condom day at McDonalds!!!
2006-12-22 01:12:29 · answer #10 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋