Is it worth it?

Question

Have you ever had the feeling,that you just want to give it all up? That your in love with a girl, who probably hates you? But you can't stop, because you have something in you no one else has. You have to keep going, no matter how hard life may seem. Is it worth it? Is it worth it, to wake up everyday and look in a mirror and hate what you see? Is it worth it to spend the holidays alone? Only because you choose to be alone? I ain't got **** in this world, but all I want is a home. No I'm not suicidal, no I'm not gonna kill myself, and no I'm not going to kill other people. I just wanna know...is it worth it?

Answer 1

It is worth it and better days, weeks, months, years are in your future. I don't know when and I don't know with whom, but life does get better. You can get through it and you will have a "home" someday. Someday, somehow, you'll look in the mirror and realize you don't hate what you see anymore and that alone will change your life. Choosing to be alone is sometimes a good thing; isolating yourself and cutting yourself off from the world is sometimes survival instinct, sometimes it's just masochism, though. I'm glad you're not suicidal and not gonna kill anyone else. :) There is hope and it is worth it, even though there are certainly times that don't feel like it. Life isn't all about emotion, so keep your emotions and gut reactions in perspective. Realize that you are a beautiful, valuable person. You exist and for now, that is enough. Someday, there will be more. Take each moment as it comes and try not to be overwhelmed by thoughts of hopelessness related to a future that you have no guarantee of anyway. We have only the moment we are in right now, and we have the opportunity to do whatever we can with that moment. Peace and blessings, and may you reach the day when you see someone you don't hate in the mirror.

Answer 2

You'll probably have many loves before your time on Earth is done; this girl will mean nothing someday. Don't get hung up on her and let her control your feelings. I'd much rather be alone than with someone who didn't reciprocate my feelings. Being alone allows time for self-growth and you gain a better perspective on things that really matter. Instead of dreading the Holidays alone, pamper yourself. Rent a bunch of DVD's and eat foods you normally don't allow yourself to partake in. Make your time alone an adventure instead of looking at it as something to only be endured. It may sound scary now, but you'll most likely look back on it one day with fondness. There are many people who spend Holidays, and everyday, alone.

Answer 3

The first thing that comes to mind to say is that we create our lives each day, each minute by our choices or lack thereof. Are you depressed? You are not alone if that's the case. Our thoughts can really be our enemy in terms of finding contentment and happiness in our lives.

If you're in love why not pursue it? See if there is interest on her part. If not, make the decision to move on. Loneliness is a b******! But imagine this, being married loving your spouse, and feeling that he doesn't love you back anymore. I'm in that boat. It's so painful to lay next to the one your love and still be totally alone!

Remember this ...life is short. Don't delay finding happiness. If something is not there you have to move on for your own sake. Not preaching, just my 2 cents.

I hope you find what you're looking for.

Answer 4

Absolutely,you want to give up, but you can't, your survival instinct kicks in and you realize you are having a bad period in your life.
We all need to feel sorry for ourselves, BUT now you have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and give yourself a good swift kick in the butt....
Take back your power, only allow positive energy to flow thought your veins and get up and do something about it.
You can't sit back and wait for it all to come to you, you must make it happen. Grab hold of the reins and go for an exciting fun filled ride.
You choose your future and your life.. don't let other people do it for you.
You make the decision to act and get on with it. You have one time around and you need to make it worth it.
So get up off your butt..... so you are alone.... big deal, no girl big deal, do something good for someone else...
Go to your food shelter and volunteer.. that is your solution to this problem.
Give of yourself freely and without strings and you will receive it back ten fold.
Go out and make it happen......
You have so many gifts to share with others... give yourself some credit.. you are so worth it....
Happy holidays and I know you are going to have a wonderful life full of love, sharing and respect...
It is time for a change......get moving....

Answer 5

Sometimes when people go through hard times, they find out how strong they really are. Tomorrow is a brand new day and remind yourself you got through yesterday and you can do it again today and tomorrow. Set your goals and obtain them. In the end, your hard work will pay off. Then sit back and remind yourself how you accomplished your goals and how you did it all by yourself.

Answer 6

It sounds like you are in love with this person and there is nothing wrong with being in love. We all have love sometime in our life but it doesn't mean that you should put yourself through emotional abuse. You shouldn't jeopardize your happiness and well-being to stay in love with this person when the feelings are not mutual. Sometimes you have to let go, that is apart of love.

Answer 7

Stop focusing on her and start focusing on yourself. If you ain't got ****. Start working and get what you want. If you don't like what you see, fat like me, get up and go to the gym. You'd be surprised at the level of confidence that you can develop if you just put your focus in the right place. besides, if you improve your self image. it shows to others and is attractive.