dont talk to her even for a single day i cant do any thing else if i dont talk to her within 24hrs i just want to be with her all the time but i cant she is frm different city so we can only talk on phone and she also dont have personal mobile so i m unable to talk daily what i do and one more thing that she cant marry me bcoz we r cousins she also love me in the way i love her i knw but still i m restless and now days i dont find any joy in anything i tried to be happy but i cant i feel happy only at the time i talk to her and then for some time then again i dont knw what happens to me i dont feel any physical pain now days... and there is 2 days that i didnt talk to her and i m feeling lots of pain in my heart and i m restless to talk to her but i cant bcoz of some problems ... i cant live without her help me what i do??? and dont tell me to leave her and plz serious answer only
2006-12-22 00:52:16 · 15 answers · asked by ronit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok what u say if she was not my cousin huh?
2006-12-22 00:58:34 · update #1
U two should get married, i have relatives who were cousins and are now married and having 4 childreen, go ahead and do what ur heart says
2006-12-22 00:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's an interesting case. :)
Honestly I think this is your first case - to fall in for someone so hard. Well don't worry, That can't be called love. (hey, I'm being completely friendly here ;)) That's just the euphoria - in most cases it's in the beginning of a relationship. It's hard but you have to move on. There's no point in giving yourself such a hard time without being sure if this will go on for even a month. Be real with yourself.
2006-12-22 01:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Deadelius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... that is kindda hard. But look at it this way, she's your cousin... do you think it's actually alright to fall in love with her? As for me, I love my cousins in a way of sisterly or brotherly love... I feel the need to protect them, or to see if they're doing alright... and that's different from the love- love you might be feeling. Take time to consider what you REALLY feel... and always remember that your heart can fool your thoughts, but the mind would always be stronger. If for you, falling in love with your cousin is alright... then, I guess... it would up to your family to see what's really right. But if you, yourself know how wrong it is, then I suggest you should control your feelings and take time to consider your actions. Good Luck! Will be praying for you... =)
2006-12-22 01:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by aic3lina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that's a hard question to answer but here it goes.You guys are cousins and you can't cross that line without it being incest.although it was common practise a hundred or so years ago its frowned upon in today's society.You really need to separate yourself from her and keep your distance.And trust me if it wasn't for the cousin thing I'd be telling you to go for it.How do your guys parents not see whats in front of them and keep you guys away from eachother.
2006-12-22 00:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be mad---most of it is chemicals in the brain. If the human species is going to reproduce it needs to feel attraction to one another for breeding---Even if you are cousins, this doesn't matter to the body----You two could be setting yourselves up for a lot of embarrassment and fighting in your family.
Just because of chemicals in your body---I'm telling you the truth but you need to do some research on it yourself.
Once you know what the problem it is easier to deal with.
2006-12-22 01:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by MamaCat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try and get over these feelings for your cousin, but to answer your question I don't think it's love I think it's infatuation.
2006-12-22 00:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is automatic. You don't need toa sk if you love the person. You know when you love someone. If you're aksing, you don't lvoe her. You are just hoping to love her.
2006-12-22 00:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by nyy35moose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love with her or not, you are cousins so...be just a friend and move on.There is nothing more you can do.
2006-12-22 00:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by amandarosallyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in West Virginia?
2006-12-22 00:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres my segesgyestion think of how happy youll be when you talk with her that will bring you joy
2006-12-22 00:59:25 · answer #10 · answered by l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋