i don't want him to be my lover. i want him to be my best friend only
2006-12-22 00:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by rashmi r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and make it clear to him now so that he will be hurt less. But please when you talk to him, do it when both of you are alone so that he won't get embarrased and don't be rough with him when doing so. If you approach him gently you won't loose the friendship there is between you two. Hope this helps and Good Luck
2006-12-22 00:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO! Usually lover do start out as best friends. You're just not there yet. Once that happens its hard to go back. How do u know that he is falling in love with you. I once had a friend that was constantly trying to get me interested in her that way. We were just best friends until she went out with my brother and the married. I sure was mad at her after that and didn't consider her my best friend any more. I never told my brother. So that is what happens some times.
2006-12-22 08:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want him as your lover then never ever let him think that your relationship could possibly go in that direction. You must also make personal rules for yourself to make sure that you to do not go in that direction which can sometimes happen during certain situations which is almost always regretted after.
2006-12-22 09:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a difficult situation guys often fall for girls they r close with if u only want him as a friend it could mean heartbrake for him thats just a very slippery slope to go down i dont no wut to tell u what ever u do though do not go on a 1 on 1 date with him do not lead him on if he tells u he likes u as more then a friend tell him the truth and hopefully he will get over it but if he truly is falling for u he may experience heartbrake
2006-12-22 08:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like this happen all the time...i think that the best way to handle this is to have an open talk with him,afterall he is your best friend...tell him how you feel and what do u want
2006-12-22 08:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by stinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that, but I warn you, men and women can't be just "friends", especially if they are attracted to each other at all.
2006-12-22 08:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a "boyfriend" ans see if he asks jealous if he doeswrite a letter to himand explain your feelings and that you just want to be friends
2006-12-22 08:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by shortysherry46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck is lovinging????? LOL Spell check is very handy!!!
2006-12-22 08:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let him no how u feel, i'm sure he'll understand!
2006-12-22 08:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by cutie19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so tell him that.
2006-12-22 08:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋