I got very drunk last night at a works night out. I was supposed to meet my bf but ended up going home and falling asleep. He waited for hours at his flat for me to call. I feel really awful about it and saw him this morning and apologised loads. He was really nice about it but I still feel bad. Have sent him a couple of texts saying I'm sorry again etc but he hasn't text me back. He might just be busy at work but I want to send him something that will make him smile. My head is sore and I'm not thinking straight any ideas what will make him smile and let him know how much I love him too?
2006-12-22 00:30:32 · 27 answers · asked by flyingconfused 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whoa you apologized! Let it go now! You're probably making the situation worse by being obsessed about it. Leave the poor man alone otherwise you might not hear from him ever again.
2006-12-22 00:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-01 02:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, youve apologised, theres not much else you can do! just leave him for a while until he txts you, then maybe suggest making him a nice home cooked meal.
But whatever you do, dont apologise again, hes probably just sick of hearing it now, its not really a big major issue as everybody gets drunk at Christmas parties, he probably understands that and thinks your just apologising too much!
2006-12-22 01:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would put yourself in his position, how would you feel if he ahd done this to you? would you be angry for a few days, and then get over it, or would you accept the apology and move on? if you just fell asleep drunk, it does sound like a bit of a poor excuse doesn't it?
but if he trusts you, an apology and a few days grovelling sound cover it.
2006-12-22 00:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you love him more than whatever and promise never to do that again !.Above all give him a suprise visit.If you meet, give him a big hug and kiss him as if you life depend on it - more especially if its in the presence of other people.
2006-12-22 00:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by austinperenje 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in big trouble I think - just give him some time to
answer your last texts as you say he may be busy or he may
already be out partying without you!
2006-12-22 00:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by sue66fun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
UNless you follow the other suggestion and send a naked pic oof you do nothing. You've already done all you can to much apologising may annoy him!
2006-12-22 00:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by The Guru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No point sending him texts why dont u pick him up from office for a change and speak it out ata candel lit cruise or lakeside/creekside dinner
2006-12-22 00:35:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, are you not aloud to have a good time, you have worked all year and it was your Christmas doo, so what if you went home and fell asleep, you were not up-to no good. If he is being shitty tell him to get over it. Would he have been so attentive if it had been him.
2006-12-22 00:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by gilly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't believe you so say goodbye and try to find someone else to annoy. He thinks you have been having it off with someone from your works, its what men think when their girl doesn't turn up in such situations.
Really thats a sad excuse you gave him.
2006-12-23 06:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋