Ok we have been together for almost 3 months I realy love him. I am feeling realy strong feelings towards him. Like there are times that I want to go all the way with him but I am afraid of the pain of doing it. I need help, and I know I love him. I don't want him to go to collage becauseI will miss him. Need some help.
2006-12-22 00:08:26 · 6 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Save it for marriage, girl! Nobody wants to date single mothers at your age. Three months isn't a long enough relationship to consider sleeping with him either. And if he moves, you probably won't be able to sustain the relationship. I doubt that the pain will be a problem when you do have sex though. Just for the first few times it might be uncomfortable. Good luck!
2006-12-22 00:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to know and more to see. The relationship is still yet to unfold. Get to know each other better and deeper. Save the physical expression of love in the future. Enjoy each other but don't own each other. If he needs to go to college, then he'll have to but maybe he can do that at your place so you won't miss him. Just take things slowly and don't pressure each other. :-) My best wishes to your relationship.
2006-12-22 08:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by terra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do need help. You don't love him, you lust for him. 3 months is not enough time to know if you love him. Your lust is clouding your thinking. Don't do it. If he is a decent guy as all your fantasies say, he will wait. If not, you will not have given something treasured away.
2006-12-22 08:15:01 · answer #3 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd say wait.. and go to college! :D
education first.. and when you finish college and you two are still together... that's love..
you can be sure that what you're feeling is love when you've given it a lot of time to grow.. so don't rush things.. :D
2006-12-22 08:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by ashantelle1830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you feel is right...do what your heart tells you at that time. and live it tot he fullest becuase you never know when you may loose someone you love very much..
2006-12-22 08:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him you love him and ask him to marry you then go to colledge
2006-12-22 08:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by 4Jesus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋